Just wondering

14 Dec 2011

I read a female profile and she's ALL UP IN THE AIR about NO MEN, etc. Okay...I can understand that if a male makes...or wants to make...a "sexually oriented" comment and the female is not receptive to that kind of comment.

There are times I've seen something in a profile that I would like to comment on, or have a private communication about, but wonder if the female would be offended. YES...this is a "sex" site, but there's things in life to be shared other than sex.

What say ye ladies? Am I wanting to be too much a gentleman?

14 Dec 2011

You should check this thread out. smile

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postsm608829_PLEASE-NO-MEN.aspx#608829

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

14 Dec 2011

SPRITE...you wrote on the above referred thread: ok, the other possibility (and i'm not discounting the OPs first assumption, i think there's truth in it) is that the whole 'no men' thing is a knee jerk reaction after getting bombarded with horny, bored, pushy, rude guys. while i am not at all about the whole 'no men' thing, i did recently change my sexual preference from bi to lesbian, so that the guys who don't know me, those few who take the time to read bios, won't hit on me. it gets OLD after a while being in chat rooms and just getting random 'want to cyber?' from guys based in nothing more then my gender.

I understand the last sentence...and agree with you. However, what about "something" in a profile that is TOTALLY NON SEXUAL that gets my attention...Do I DARE respond? That is the gist of my question.

14 Dec 2011

As long as you're wanting to go about it as a gentleman, and act accordingly, you won't have a problem. Yes, you'll be missing out on the "please no men!" crowd, but they're either men-disguised-as-lesbians, or girls that come here for super-fun profile-posting girlie time, or shellshocked by having been bombarded with creep message bukkake. For varying reasons, you want no part of any of these types anyway, so consider it their loss.

The reasonable and reasonably friendly among us will have no problem engaging other reasonable people in any manner of dialogue.

14 Dec 2011

Quote by LadyX
creep message bukkake.

14 Dec 2011

Quote by snoopnc
I understand the last sentence...and agree with you. However, what about "something" in a profile that is TOTALLY NON SEXUAL that gets my attention...Do I DARE respond? That is the gist of my question.

For the record, i am NOT one of the NO MEN girls. I have made a lot of good friends here from pretty much every 'catagory' straights, gays, bis, cross-dressers, men, women, kitties... smile

really, take risks, if you see someone who looks interesting, send them a note (btw, i owe you a response - my messages are a bit backed up from being gone from the site for a week, but i will get to it, promise!) and most people will write back, say hi, behave in a reasonable manner. it's a friendly site, and yeah, a lot of guys are here trolling, but a lot of guys here are really cool interesting fun nice people too, and personally, i'd hate to miss out on all the Stephanies, Felixes, Easy Riders, Loud Bikers, Jebrus, Red Dragons, FeliniusKingus's, GAVS, Rudys, Jaymals, ETC ETC! who make my Lush experience so wonderful. smile

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

14 Dec 2011

I am not a "no men girl" either, I just have rules. I will be receptive to anyone if they are respectful to me. But I do get very annoyed when I get "Bukkaked" by men I have never had any contact with that either want me to add them or cyber with them. I have made it crystal clear in my profile that I will not friend anyone, Male or Female, if I have not had any previous contact. I do not think that is unreasonable.

The key word is Respect!!! Show it and who knows.......................................!!

14 Dec 2011

Personally I think some ladies on here are a bit uptight. But as too your question: I don't see anything wrong with sending a polite message (don't poke or use the little black message boxes) acknowledge that she has expressed no interest in talking with men, let her know that you are interested in a non-sexual conversation on xyz topic (be specific, even quoting her profile page), then close by saying you respect her boundaries but you are available to chat. If shr responds rudely well she's a bitch or a dude. If she doesn't respond, don't bother her again.

Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X

14 Dec 2011

Quote by sprite

For the record, i am NOT one of the NO MEN girls. I have made a lot of good friends here from pretty much every 'catagory' straights, gays, bis, cross-dressers, men, women, kitties... really, take risks, if you see someone who looks interesting, send them a note (btw, i owe you a response - my messages are a bit backed up from being gone from the site for a week, but i will get to it, promise!) and most people will write back, say hi, behave in a reasonable manner. it's a friendly site, and yeah, a lot of guys are here trolling, but a lot of guys here are really cool interesting fun nice people too, and personally, i'd hate to miss out on all the Stephanies, Felixes, Easy Riders, Loud Bikers, Jebrus, Red Dragons, FeliniusKingus's, GAVS, Rudys, Jaymals, ETC ETC! who make my Lush experience so wonderful.

After 28 years, I finally feel special! Thanks Rach!

I guess I'm more of a "NO MEN" type of guy than most girls here. Girls simply have way too much people to reply to. When a dude wants to talk to me, I do have the time to reply. But unless he's truly fascinating, or has many hot girl friends, I will simply ignore. Not that it ever happened. But if it were to happen, please note that I will reply to you only if you're truly fascinating or have many hot girl friends. I'm that shallow.

Are you sure?