This is definitely not wrong, regardless of what anyone says. I was 20 when I met my first older man, who was 38. I eventually lost my virginity to him and don't regret it for one moment and we are still together. He is sweet and just amazing. Older men are much more mature and passionate. Don't knock it until you've experienced it.
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Is a 19 year old in a sexual relationship with a middle-aged man wrong?
Active Ink Slinger
Go for it girl! Experience is hot.
It isn't wrong but it's not necessarily normal, either. That means she's only a year or two out of high school. When I was younger I would date older guys and let them take me to fancy dinners. I was still in high school.
I had moved out of my Dad's house at 17 and I wasn't quite ready to be on my own. I lived with my best friend's cousin Joel, who I didn't even know.
(Luckily he was decent and didn't try any moves on me.)
We weren't sexual. I guess we just sort of "used each other" for other reasons.
(the men I'd let take me to dinner.)This was a long time ago and I am not the same person as I was back then.
Though it may not be wrong, it doesn't necessarily make it right either. I suppose it's the nature of the relationship that makes the difference. A sugar-daddy and his toy? Daddy / sub?
When I think of a relationship I tend to think of a situation that goes much deeper than those.
They say age is just a number, but especially these days the culture is completely different. I'm no where near the hill yet, so I'm surely not over it. And I can hardly speak the same language as a 19 year old let alone have anything in common.
When I think of a relationship I tend to think of a situation that goes much deeper than those.
They say age is just a number, but especially these days the culture is completely different. I'm no where near the hill yet, so I'm surely not over it. And I can hardly speak the same language as a 19 year old let alone have anything in common.
This is not wrong at all provided the female has not been manipulated into such an arrangement. Younger females are very inexperienced, promiscuous, emotional, and insecure. These feelings are only allowed to grow when younger girls have intercourse of all three varieties with males their own age as those males are selfish, immature, unaware of a female's needs, and incapable of completely fulfilling a younger female's sexual and emotional needs. On the contrary, an older man has the ability to control the young female's mind and body, fulfill even her deepest desires, and allow things to not get too out of hand emotionally and sexually. The maturity, patience, and experience of an older man can teach a female ate a very young age how to become a woman and how to control her emotions and desires and to not allow males to use them for selfish reasons, rather mutual pleasure between all males and females involved.
Active Ink Slinger
I want to say, "why not?" Of course, that is the easy way to answer the question. I'm middle aged and I do fantasize about fucking young women, especially beautiful young white females; however, it has just remained a fantasy to date. I think in real life, I might think twice about it. There is a difference between reality and the fantasy world of pornography, but it will always be one of my fantasies, that's for sure!
Active Ink Slinger
Totally,find a middle aged woman!
Active Ink Slinger
As a 20 yr old lesbian that prefers older women, I see nothing wrong there.
The Bee's Knees
i don't think wrong is the right choice of words. there's nothing inherently wrong with it. do i think it's cool? not really. she's at an age where she should be exploring, especially with others who are in her age group. however, if she's into it, who am i to judge?
Say. Her. Name.
I wouldn't recommend settling down at that age, whether with someone older or not - but only because I wish I had been single more in my early 20s!
However, sex with older men can be great - less "show offy" and more interested in making sure it's actually fun. In my experience. The last person I went with is around 22 years older than me and it has happened a few times - he might cum quick the first time but always makes sure I get off before he even starts, and then round 2 is amazing!
However, sex with older men can be great - less "show offy" and more interested in making sure it's actually fun. In my experience. The last person I went with is around 22 years older than me and it has happened a few times - he might cum quick the first time but always makes sure I get off before he even starts, and then round 2 is amazing!