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Maybe a stupid question ... but how do you initiate intimacy with a guy? Sometimes, theyre just too slow. Don't you girls ever get that feeling? ![dontknow](https://static.lushstories.com/emoticons/lush/forum/dontknow.gif)
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
I've never understood this issue, and how/why girls don't initiate, unless you are intimidated by your man, in which case you definitely need to be communicating more in general.
I've always just reached out and started touching him, or whispered something dirty in his ear.
Sometimes, I put a cute spin on things (like when woman ask their man if an outfit makes them look fat), where I'd be in the bedroom and call out to him in another room, "honey, can I get your advice on something?" And then I'd walk out stark naked except for a hot little thong and ask innocently, "Do these panties make my pussy look wet?" I can't think of a time where that didn't get an instant reaction.![]()
Quote by MMonroe
Yep, ive been in the situation before. We're cuddling on the sofa, we both know why we're there, but both of us are too shy to do anything. It did happen eventually but i was sat there for ages hoping he'd make the first move.
I'm getter better with my conidence but most of the time i always wait for him to initiate things... its the one signal really that actually lets me know he's up for it. I'd hate to be knocked back if i made the first move.
Quote by WHR43Quote by MMonroe
Yep, ive been in the situation before. We're cuddling on the sofa, we both know why we're there, but both of us are too shy to do anything. It did happen eventually but i was sat there for ages hoping he'd make the first move.
I'm getter better with my conidence but most of the time i always wait for him to initiate things... its the one signal really that actually lets me know he's up for it. I'd hate to be knocked back if i made the first move.
do you really believe you will be rejected?
Quote by Nikki703Quote by Dancing_Doll
I've never understood this issue, and how/why girls don't initiate, unless you are intimidated by your man, in which case you definitely need to be communicating more in general.
I've always just reached out and started touching him, or whispered something dirty in his ear.
Sometimes, I put a cute spin on things (like when woman ask their man if an outfit makes them look fat), where I'd be in the bedroom and call out to him in another room, "honey, can I get your advice on something?" And then I'd walk out stark naked except for a hot little thong and ask innocently, "Do these panties make my pussy look wet?" I can't think of a time where that didn't get an instant reaction.![]()
I agree. Why don't women initiate more often? I think most guys would like that. And if he is the type who would feel threatened by a strong confident woman, then I don't want him anyhow.
And by the way, I cant imagine anyone rejecting you if you walked out of the room in just a thong. I know I'm wet just thinking about it!!![]()