Ok so, I turned 18 last month, and Im getting pretty serious with my boyfriend, Jeremy. He's a virgin and so am I but next Thursday, were taking a trip to florida and itll be romantic and all that mush. I think Im ready to give my virginity to him, weve been together for 3 years but Ive known him for 8, so Im pretty sure Im ready. The thing is, all my friends said it hurt, like REALLY badly and Im scared. Can I get some advice or second opinions? Greatly appreciated!
Well in my experience, it didn't exactly hurt, it was just uncomfortable. Just make sure your ready for him. He can stretch you out a bit with his fingers and make sure your wet enough for him.
Don't worry about it because if you think its going to hurt and worry, your body will react and your muscles will contract and it will most likely hurt then.
just relax and have fun =]
oh and be safe.
Well little Miss Red my advice would be to take things slow & gradually and perhaps consider you being on top .... maybe start by arousing him with a nice slow & lazy blow job while fingering yourself , and when you feel ready mount him cowgirl style allowing you to gradually take him in little by little ... I would also strongly suggest birth control ... the pill , condom .... better yet maybe both .... if you both decide to do this I wish you both the best.... be loving ... be RESPONSIBLE .............................
I always heard it hurt really bad too, but it wasn't so bad really. If you're ready you know it. I can honestly say that I've never regretted losing my virginity.
[url]http://[/url] Go see your OBGYN or family doc...you can get a little "snip" on the hymen that will help the first penetration be so much easier.
If you are not wet enough when having intercourse for first time, it can hurt. You might not be wet enough coz u r nervous. Always good to have some KY gel or similar lube handy.
Have him rbn around on you to stimulate sex without penetration. Its sexy. If you get aroused and want him to enter you make sure he uses a condom. Even if you are wet some extra lube might help. You must relax. It hurt the first time but its not excruciating or anything. Enjoy your time and don't feel pressured.