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I'm a slut but don't call me a slut?

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I think that there are major differences in being called a 'slut', using the term 'slut' and actually being a 'slut'. For me, many of us women would aspire to attain that lofty status of a 'true slut', yet very few of us actually are willing to put forth the necessary effort and self-sacrifice to achieve that lofty pinnacle. Many of us may act as a slut in the bedroom and like to be called a slut or use that term when engaged in sexual activities, but in reality they are not true sluts. Being a 'slut' can also be a mind-set as well. So, in short, it's a complicated term with many and various implications and meanings. I for one love to be called and do think of myself as a slut, yet outwardly I'm not. Outwardly, I'm a rather conservative businesswoman who just happens to love having her panties slipped off at the drop of a hat. As one girl accurately stated and I'd agree, I'm more of an actively promiscuous woman. smile
any woman that calls her self a slut has so self respect
Why isn't there an equivalent term for men?
Player

playboy

stud

gigolo

hustler

ect..ect.....
Timing is everything for me, and all names are relative to the role playing that is being acted out. If I am being a "Dirty Slut", then call me it! If I am being a "Princess" or a "Good Girl" call me that! I don't believe I am a slut, I don't act like a slut, look like a slut, walk like a slut, or quack like a slut... therefore, not a slut. I don't want to be called one out of context, it can be hurtful, and shameful. I say know someone boundaries before you start giving names!
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Timing is everything for me, and all names are relative to the role playing that is being acted out. If I am being a "Dirty Slut", then call me it! If I am being a "Princess" or a "Good Girl" call me that! I don't believe I am a slut, I don't act like a slut, look like a slut, walk like a slut, or quack like a slut... therefore, not a slut. I don't want to be called one out of context, it can be hurtful, and shameful. I say know someone boundaries before you start giving names!


I agree with you 10,000% Mrs. Rabbit..
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Timing is everything for me, and all names are relative to the role playing that is being acted out. If I am being a "Dirty Slut", then call me it! If I am being a "Princess" or a "Good Girl" call me that! I don't believe I am a slut, I don't act like a slut, look like a slut, walk like a slut, or quack like a slut... therefore, not a slut. I don't want to be called one out of context, it can be hurtful, and shameful. I say know someone boundaries before you start giving names!


That all she wrote folks - and wrote well.

Personally I love sluts. If it weren't for sluts ugly beggars like me wouldn't get any where. If I use the term I do so in the appropriate way (heat of passion and just us). I would never call a woman/lady etc the name otherwise. Disrespectful and offensive.
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Why isn't there an equivalent term for men?
There is Molly....I think the term is Ass Hole...lol
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There is Molly....I think the term is Ass Hole...lol

Or Prick. Sluts isn't appropriate to men as all men are sluts.qWj28PMh4VmKQloa
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It's a term I never use. No matter who the woman is.


always happy to wave hello to a gentleman...
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In their profiles many gals on Lush describe themselves as sluts. In this forum most gals say they do not want to be called a slut while making love. Is my observation correct and if so why??


perhaps the majority of those girls who describe themselves so, don't choose to come here .. they choose to cum elsewhere, where they r in high demand? ... omg please don't read any spite into that... no malice intended.. just I hate the word.. when I was "outed" to my parents by a neighbour, my stepmother tried to make an art form out of the word...
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I think that sometimes people don't like to be called certain names because it may hit too close to home... Like I know this girl who hates those names, she acts like she's innocent and hates being called a slut. If she's not really a slut then why would it matter?




what an interesting post...
"sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me?"... I don't think u believe that ? ...
and yet the point u make is valid..

personally .. I hate the word...
B: I may BE one, but don't you ever call me that. Even Sir never uses that word with either me or Tani.
I don't mind being called a slut, but I think of myself a mature and promiscuous
I have always loved it when a man (I know very well) calls me a slut. He has to know me, know what I'm capable of, and have intimate knowledge of said sluttiness. smile