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Okay so me and my friend have been very close friends for a while. we never dated but came very close to. so, after about 3 years of close friendship she is with an old ex of hers that she has always been crazy about even though he always hurts her. Now the 2 of them are practically in love but then she has reason to believe he was cheating on her. Even though he said he wasn't and she believed him, i still dont know if he is or not.

So anyway, i was hanging out the other day and she started getting tired and put her head on my chest. She just kind of sat there, not moving. i wasnt surprised really. she did little things like that with me a lot. but since she was with her boyfriend again i never know how far is to far now that she isnt single. so i let her kinda show me the boundaries if you will. but she did it more tonight then ever before. then as we were walking back to her place she said that we never had our first kiss. I was shocked mostly because i didnt think she would want to cheat on her boyfriend. i mean its just a kiss, but i know i wouldnt want her to kiss someone else if i was going out with her. so i just kind of went along with it. she was tired. so we just stood around looking at the stars and she came up to me and put her head on my chest again and stood there for a few minutes, just holding her. then we kept walking and sat in my car for a bit.

we just kind of talked and when i had to leave she gave me a very long hug and then i kissed her. she was very happy about it too. so when i got home she texted me and said we should re do it again. next time i saw her we didnt actually even kiss mostly because we were driving the whole time. plus i didnt want to over due it because as much as i dont mind kissing her, shes the one with the boyfriend. im single. so when she got home she told me that i should have kissed her and that it became a normal thing for us. idk what she really thinks. i mean, i dont mind it at all that were doing that and that she gives me more freedom if you will, but could she possibly like me more than her bf?
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You already posted this over in the relationships advice section...
USMC55822
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Quote by LittleBambi
You already posted this over in the relationships advice section...

I know i did. and like i said in the first sentence, i just thought it would be better off in this section
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i think she sees you more of a close friend with snuggle and cuddles and a couple of kisses rather than boyfriend material. youve known her too long without doing anything to say how you feel towards her, so she sees it as friends.
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i think she sees you more of a close friend with snuggle and cuddles and a couple of kisses rather than boyfriend material. youve known her too long without doing anything to say how you feel towards her, so she sees it as friends.
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i think she sees you more of a close friend with snuggle and cuddles and a couple of kisses rather than boyfriend material. youve known her too long without doing anything to say how you feel towards her, so she sees it as friends.
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I know this is "ask the gals" but these types of situations are very close to my heart if I may.

This is how it looks to my outside eye:

The cons:
1This girl is a friend. If she is really falling for That guy it could lead to some difficult decisions later on.
2 you know that old saying about the quickest way to ruin a friendship?
3. If the guy is not cheating it will look very bad if he finds out
4.it might just be a friend wanting to. Blow some sexual/emotional frustration.
5. It could a game your friend is playing to get back at the ex/current guy.
The pros:
1. She MIGHT like you, (seems un likly espically if she went back with an ex)
2.you get to experience your friendship on a new level (however remember that old saying)
3. Your single the only thing your risking are your feelings and your friendship.

So to answer your question its possible. It dosent seem likly but go with your gut. Take it from my limited life experience that dating and fooling around with friends tends to. Strain your friendship.

Hope I helped. (Any questions/clarification pm me or w.e lol)
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I think that she is hinting to hear your feelings. I say take a shot and tell her that you do have feelings for her and she should be with you instead of the guy who hurts her. Tell her you think you might be risking your friendship but you have to get this out so she can act on it or not, and if she doesn't act on it, you still want to be her friend.