@ Summa - thing is, i'm still confused as to what statement i made that somehow defined me as a racist. i understand that i voiced my opinion on what i got out of Bambi's post, but i don't recall ever stating that was my belief - in fact, if you read my initial post, i distinctly voiced my opinion that, to me, the color of someone's skin makes absolutely no difference to me. That's what's got me scratching my head, quite honestly.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
I'll again suggest that we stay closer to the original question and not go down the path of determining who among us are racists according to our own personal thoughts on the matter. We all have our own opinions of what constitutes racism, calibrated based on our own sensitivities and experiences; there's no single right answer but lots of potential overreactions.
I agree that a subject like this is chock full of hot-button landmines, and that race is a subject that should absolutely not be treated like a bygone subject, but this thread is about preferences, not race and sexuality as a subject of controversy. I suggest the Think Tank section if anyone wishes to delve further into a subject such as the one discussed over the last 20 or so posts.
Don't know if this qualifies as racist but middle-eastern womn have long large clits and full meaty lips
Wow...
I'm going to pass on the racism discussion in this thread.
OP: I have no qualms with any race in terms of sexual preference. I like women and men of any race as long as I have a certain chemistry with them. Sexuality to me is not about the color of a person's skin but it is what's in the inside of said skin.
That is all...
Wow. This is crazy. I've read this thread and I haven't seen Bambi or Spirte, the two "racists" in question, say ANYthing racist. Not at all. In fact, I find that anyone who sees such blatant racism in such innocent and non-offensive things to be the true racist. That word is a heavy word and should only be used when necessary. Categorically calling a person a racist is a coward's way of invalidating their arguement. It's the whole, "if you see any differences at all between races/cultures" then you must be a racist. Bullshit. People are different. One isn't any better than the other.
The fact that the OP is black and commented that Sprite's first reply was "kickass" destroys the notion that she's racist. Either that or he must be an Uncle Tom. And no Terry, I don't think you are. Also, later in the thread ThunderQueen states that she prefers white men. She doesn't say she'd only fuck white guys. Jsut prefers them. People are attracted to whatever rocks their boat.
Summa, I don't know you. Just as you don't know anyone here. But I think you're seeing something that isn't there.
As for me, I have a thing for "Asian chicks". lol I lost my virginity to an Asian girl and I've been trying hard to get another certain one to give it up but she's playing hard to get. LOL Seriously. I have no issues with dating or being with someone of another race. Dated an Asian girl and went on a few dates with a black girl as well. The color of her skin had no bearing in anyway on why we got together or why we split apart.
Let's not dilute the terms "racist/racism" on the unimportant things such as whether or not someone is attracted to one race versus another. True racism is ignorant, hideous, and hateful and should be used to describe people and actions, both overt and covert, that actualy are racist. "
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates just love multiracial group sex.
Trying to sound cool. Too much work left.
after lots of careful consideration, i have decided that yes, i AM a racist. i plan on devoting my day to removing anyone from my friends list not of Norwegian descent. also, i have given my wife a 3 day notice that she needs to vacate and find herself a new girlfriend. we have two cats, one who is orange, and one who is brown. guess which one is going to the pound today. yep, you guessed it, brown kitty. thank you for opening my eyes.
btw, if you think by this post i don't take racism seriously, Summa, you are sadly mistaken. i think the issue here is that you are either a troll or sadly misguided. if you really want to fight racism, put your money where your mouth is - posting some snarky accusations on a thread at a sex site isn't going to do a damn thing, especially when the people you are trying to educate probably have a firmer grasp of the subject then you do and have seen the effects of real racism first hand.
and that, folks, is my last word on the subject.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
How in the world can anyone conclude that Bambi or Sprite is a racist? Befuddles me. There is no evidence of that at all. Quite the contrary seems to be evident. More often than not the person screaming 'racist' is actually the real racist.