Outside what room? and why the hell are you crying?
Eating pussy is not an activity that need be restricted to the bedroom. Just sayin'...
outside the bedroom? maybe hit a local show, play pool, drunk karaoke.
like the old joke says; How to impress a woman;
Compliment her, cuddle her, kiss her, caress her, love her, stroke her, tease her, comfort her, protect her, hug her, hold her, spend money on her, wine & dine her, buy things for her, listen to her, care for her, stand by her, support her, go to the ends of the earth for her....
HOW TO IMPRESS A MAN
Show up naked. .... with Beer