How to be a better girl

1 Nov 2015

I know a lot of people will probably just scroll past this, but I'd appreciate any advice and tips you have to give even small ones...

I am an 18 year old Crossdresser, I aim to live my life as a woman full time in the not to distant future, however can't at this point in my life as I'm at uni studying and living with other people

But I wanna be as girly and feminine as I possibly can right now at where I am in my life, especially when I am alone in the flat, and do everything even little feminine and girly things that actual women and girls do on a daily basis, for eg shave my legs, put a towel at my chest rather than my waist, put a towel round my hair all sorts of things like that

Even the little things id love to hear about them so I can feel more at home in my own body and be as close to what I want to be as possible, thanks x x x

2 Nov 2015

I'm assuming you already wear women's clothing. What about women's lingerie? Stockings etc? I'm sure THAT would help you feel more feminine. What about putting on a little makeup? Even just a little bit of lipstick. Perfume? Perhaps grow your hair a bit longer so it suits a male and female at all times. I'm sure there are lots more things you can do.

I'm wondering if this post might be more successful in this forum? I noticed a post on cross dressing. Good luck.

https://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_topics47_LGBT-Community-Forum.aspx

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2 Nov 2015

I'll be the first to admit I'm not a real "girly" girl, but there is one thing I do for myself that my husband got me started back on and that's getting my nails done. I get a gel manicure (because I fuck up a manicure with regular polish within hours of it being done) about once ever three weeks and a pedicure every couple of months (more often if our budget can deal.)

Years ago before gel polish, I'd get a regular pedicure about once a month. It was a time for me to get pampered and I loved how cute my toes would look when the person was done. I had to give it up with money got tight (luxury items always go first) so now that I'm in a position that our budget can handle it, I now go on a regular basis and happily I have one gal who does both my gel manicure and my regular pedicure.

So my advice is to fine a good, trustworthy nail person. Someone who does good quality work and makes you feel good. My gal & I chit-chat as she works and she encourages me to try some colors I might not normally try otherwise. Getting your nails done is a small thing that for me, personally, is something I do that is all about being a girl.

Good luck.

2 Nov 2015

Bathe and moisturize 2 or 3 times a day! Something girls do a lot more than guys.

2 Nov 2015

I hear ya! I've been straight as an arrow, married, a father of two boys, but for the past few years I've REALLY let my feminine side come to the fore.

What I think of as essentially feminine are the maternal, nurturing attributes. Gentleness, kindness, compassion, patience, tolerance, long-suffering, and **Loving** lavishly. Holding, caring, consoling, comforting, guiding, touching, stroking, caressing, LOVING, harm-LESSly, delicately, tenderly.

I don't feel the need to become female as in physically, cosmetically, and fashionably. I shave my head, wear a trimmed wrap-around beard, and am distinctly masculine in appearance, manner, voice, and behavior. But underneath, inside, in my heart, there's a woman there. I've let her grow and become the greater part of me. I find that I'm a better person, a better father, a better son, brother, uncle, a better worker, colleague, everything, because I've allowed my feminine side to take over, to literally enslave my hetero reptilian kernel, which lives and breathes but is well tamed.

I have put on women's panties a few times, even ordered a bunch through the mail, but I'm just not a CD. I LOVE women's underwear, but I love 'em when a lady's in them. I guess I'm just not full-bore transgender, just partially. Or perhaps I'm mixed up! Maybe my man side isn't as subdued as I think? Who knows. It's all good.

Be who you are. Your body belongs to you. Be free. But value yourself. You are unique, and don't let any tweed-encrusted professor tell you that you're not. You are YOU, and nobody knows YOU more than YOU.

Go with it, and feel as good and healthy as you can. But be safe, and value yourself. There is only ONE of you, and you are precious. hello1

2 Nov 2015

Try batting your eyelashes 3 times a second ............................................ahahaha okay okay no don't even think about trying that, its absurdly funny !!

How about trying heels? Its pretty feminine smile

And good luck for your future plans xx Hugs

2 Nov 2015

Quote by Carnelian
I hear ya! I've been straight as an arrow, married, a father of two boys, but for the past few years I've REALLY let my feminine side come to the fore.

What I think of as essentially feminine are the maternal, nurturing attributes. Gentleness, kindness, compassion, patience, tolerance, long-suffering, and **Loving** lavishly. Holding, caring, consoling, comforting, guiding, touching, stroking, caressing, LOVING, harm-LESSly, delicately, tenderly.

I don't feel the need to become female as in physically, cosmetically, and fashionably. I shave my head, wear a trimmed wrap-around beard, and am distinctly masculine in appearance, manner, voice, and behavior. But underneath, inside, in my heart, there's a woman there. I've let her grow and become the greater part of me. I find that I'm a better person, a better father, a better son, brother, uncle, a better worker, colleague, everything, because I've allowed my feminine side to take over, to literally enslave my hetero reptilian kernel, which lives and breathes but is well tamed.

I have put on women's panties a few times, even ordered a bunch through the mail, but I'm just not a CD. I LOVE women's underwear, but I love 'em when a lady's in them. I guess I'm just not full-bore transgender, just partially. Or perhaps I'm mixed up! Maybe my man side isn't as subdued as I think? Who knows. It's all good.

Be who you are. Your body belongs to you. Be free. But value yourself. You are unique, and don't let any tweed-encrusted professor tell you that you're not. You are YOU, and nobody knows YOU more than YOU.

Go with it, and feel as good and healthy as you can. But be safe, and value yourself. There is only ONE of you, and you are precious.

Quite beautiful. May ALL men learn from your example!

3 Nov 2015

Quote by Carnelian
I hear ya! I've been straight as an arrow, married, a father of two boys, but for the past few years I've REALLY let my feminine side come to the fore.

What I think of as essentially feminine are the maternal, nurturing attributes. Gentleness, kindness, compassion, patience, tolerance, long-suffering, and **Loving** lavishly. Holding, caring, consoling, comforting, guiding, touching, stroking, caressing, LOVING, harm-LESSly, delicately, tenderly.

I don't feel the need to become female as in physically, cosmetically, and fashionably. I shave my head, wear a trimmed wrap-around beard, and am distinctly masculine in appearance, manner, voice, and behavior. But underneath, inside, in my heart, there's a woman there. I've let her grow and become the greater part of me. I find that I'm a better person, a better father, a better son, brother, uncle, a better worker, colleague, everything, because I've allowed my feminine side to take over, to literally enslave my hetero reptilian kernel, which lives and breathes but is well tamed.

I have put on women's panties a few times, even ordered a bunch through the mail, but I'm just not a CD. I LOVE women's underwear, but I love 'em when a lady's in them. I guess I'm just not full-bore transgender, just partially. Or perhaps I'm mixed up! Maybe my man side isn't as subdued as I think? Who knows. It's all good.

Be who you are. Your body belongs to you. Be free. But value yourself. You are unique, and don't let any tweed-encrusted professor tell you that you're not. You are YOU, and nobody knows YOU more than YOU.

Go with it, and feel as good and healthy as you can. But be safe, and value yourself. There is only ONE of you, and you are precious.

This! And it's REALLY beautiful! Big Hugs

3 Nov 2015

I love what Carnelian wrote. And that is I feel the most importan thing. How you feel. You can be pretty and girly but if you feel different people will notice it. Of course, all the tips that Trinket share are super helpful and a most.

If you want more advice, have you visited feminization Secrets site? It is very good.