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How old is too old for you?
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There was another thread about age differences a while back which you might want to have a look at - http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst19511_do-you-go-for-older-guys.aspx
For me it's hard to say. My partner is the same age as me and we have been together since we were 18.
I like to think I would have no limits and I seem to connect well with older guys as friends. I've formed some very close online friendships with a couple of guys in their sixties on lush and one of them in particular definitely does it for me (I'm 27 btw).
Thinking practically in terms of a long term relationship, with a house and kids etc... I think anything more than about 10 years difference will ultimately lead to problems.
For me it's hard to say. My partner is the same age as me and we have been together since we were 18.
I like to think I would have no limits and I seem to connect well with older guys as friends. I've formed some very close online friendships with a couple of guys in their sixties on lush and one of them in particular definitely does it for me (I'm 27 btw).
Thinking practically in terms of a long term relationship, with a house and kids etc... I think anything more than about 10 years difference will ultimately lead to problems.
Another age thread
This thread sort of covers your question as well...
This thread sort of covers your question as well...
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I'm married to a 'toy boy' who's far more mature and sensible than I will ever be. Spookily enough however, (I threw that in especially for Halloween!), I'm naturally attracted to older guys. I guess that only goes to prove age is only ever a number.
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I agree with many women. There's something about older men that's so charming and sexy. I've fancied a man in his 50's for years
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I agree with many women. There's something about older men that's so charming and sexy. I've fancied a man in his 50's for years
That's actually a difficult question. I can get a little bit creeped out if men old enough to be my father try and pick me up in a club or something. But I have got to know a few older men through friends and have later fucked them. I think the oldest would be in his forties but I have had quite a lot of men in their thirties. Generally I would have to say I prefer young studs for casual pickups but older men aren't out of the running if they are good looking and fit. I'm 21 by the way, for reference! LOL
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I have always dated a person by personality ...not age ..He could be 35 or 80.... doing my best to be good..
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Nothing over 10 years older than me I think, maybe 15 years older. But right now I am in a serious relationship with a guy my own age. I have been involved with up to 8 years older than me.
When I was 20 I had a wild affair with a woman who was 45. When I was 45 I had a deep and meaningful - and a very sex-fuelled - relationship with a woman ten years younger. Now I am 63 I am married to a sexy lady who is 69 and I fancy our local barmaid who is 19. I guess that tells you what I think about the age question.
I only date older men. He generally has to be at least 3 years older than me I think my cut off limit would be 7-8 years older than me because at that point I think what you want in life is very different. Saying that I did date a guy briefly that was 15 years my senior but it was just a fling.
Older men have the maturity, the intelligence, have seemed to have worked out what women like and they don't get freaked out when I tell them I have submissive tendencies. Older men can keep me on my toes and keep my mind as well as my body stimulated.
Guys my age and younger are simply about getting their leg over and even then they don't tend to be great at that.
Older men have the maturity, the intelligence, have seemed to have worked out what women like and they don't get freaked out when I tell them I have submissive tendencies. Older men can keep me on my toes and keep my mind as well as my body stimulated.
Guys my age and younger are simply about getting their leg over and even then they don't tend to be great at that.
I'm endlessly amazed that some people consider around 5 years to be 'an older man'.
I also think that people would be surprised by how far they're willing to go or not... there is a point for most people, I believe, where your brain just goes 'woah, hold up girl'.
My most recent 'proper' relationship was with a guy aged 31, for me that was okay... physically it was fine, nothing creepy etc... of course, we didn't have the same interests, values, ideas, experiences and general expectations/ideals with regards to life on the whole. I've also been with/had sex with people up to approx 40 years older than me (57 was my oldest), I'm going to lay it down here (sorry to any 50+ blokes reading this!) but to me that was creepy. That guy could have easily been my dad, in a couple of years time he'll turn 60... he'll be an old aged pensioner.
I wouldn't go that much older than me again, I'd say my cut off point sexually is mid - late 40s... but for a relationship I think it highly unlikely that I personally would be able to get on with someone that much older than me in the longterm. You're at completely different points in your life, you're not on a level.*
* Note that there are of course couples that are an exception to this rule, I'm not doubting that for a second.
I also think that people would be surprised by how far they're willing to go or not... there is a point for most people, I believe, where your brain just goes 'woah, hold up girl'.
My most recent 'proper' relationship was with a guy aged 31, for me that was okay... physically it was fine, nothing creepy etc... of course, we didn't have the same interests, values, ideas, experiences and general expectations/ideals with regards to life on the whole. I've also been with/had sex with people up to approx 40 years older than me (57 was my oldest), I'm going to lay it down here (sorry to any 50+ blokes reading this!) but to me that was creepy. That guy could have easily been my dad, in a couple of years time he'll turn 60... he'll be an old aged pensioner.
I wouldn't go that much older than me again, I'd say my cut off point sexually is mid - late 40s... but for a relationship I think it highly unlikely that I personally would be able to get on with someone that much older than me in the longterm. You're at completely different points in your life, you're not on a level.*
* Note that there are of course couples that are an exception to this rule, I'm not doubting that for a second.
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age is just a number... it does not tell you who someone really is.....
want the person... not the age....
there are young ones who are wise and sexy and in control... there are older ones who have experience and knowledge to please you.
want the person... not the age....
there are young ones who are wise and sexy and in control... there are older ones who have experience and knowledge to please you.
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older man for me everytime 40+ just right x
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When I was younger I perferred older men, now that i am a little bit older and not interested in a long term relationsgip, give me a young hung stud that can get it up several times a night!
