How often would you like to have sex if it was completely in your hands ?

How often? At least twice a day. Sometimes we do, mainly at the weekend, until we are that floaty, exhausted, happy mess. I love the glow and the smile it gives me.

Is it not ALWAYS in the lady's hands????? lol

The lazy answer when I'm horny or when things are fresh is - just give it to me, every fucking minute.
But with a bit more thought and nuance - well, let's have enough to give us the dopamine and connection we need, but not so much it sullies our ability to pursue other fulfillments in life. Could look like twice daily when on vacation, but just twice a week in a busy work week.

It depends on my mood, but almost everyday is ideal for me