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Gals, how much time passes between meeting a guy and sleeping with him?
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Thanks for not making me confront a 'less than one week' choice!!!
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I've only been with one guy and I'd known him for about 2 years before that.
Goodie two-shoes right here lol
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Need more choices. LOL! Can anyone say one night stand? Or being friends with someone for a month or a year and then having sex?
Then you would pick More than a month, Chef-Tastic.
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With formal dating, I live by the 3 date rule.... If I'm still wanting to see him by the third date, I will definitely be wanting to sleep with him.
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With formal dating, I live by the 3 date rule.... If I'm still wanting to see him by the third date, I will definitely be wanting to sleep with him.
Dancing what about that really hot guy/girl that you met at the club last night. Dancing I know you know the one, the chemistry is there, your wet after the first dance and your mind goes into a spin when he/she touches you. I have to believe your are headed for a bed some place or some place for mind damaging sex. Or does that not count because it was really not a date?
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With formal dating, I live by the 3 date rule.... If I'm still wanting to see him by the third date, I will definitely be wanting to sleep with him.
Dancing what about that really hot guy/girl that you met at the club last night. Dancing I know you know the one, the chemistry is there, your wet after the first dance and your mind goes into a spin when he/she touches you. I have to believe your are headed for a bed some place or some place for mind damaging sex. Or does that not count because it was really not a date?
Yeah, that scenario doesn't count because it's not a date... it's just a random hook up (and there certainly isn't anything wrong with those either!). I've gone on to date some people that started as one night stands. But generally speaking, if I think he has relationship potential I prefer to make him work for it a little...
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With formal dating, I live by the 3 date rule.... If I'm still wanting to see him by the third date, I will definitely be wanting to sleep with him.
Dancing what about that really hot guy/girl that you met at the club last night. Dancing I know you know the one, the chemistry is there, your wet after the first dance and your mind goes into a spin when he/she touches you. I have to believe your are headed for a bed some place or some place for mind damaging sex. Or does that not count because it was really not a date?
Yeah, that scenario doesn't count because it's not a date... it's just a random hook up (and there certainly isn't anything wrong with those either!). I've gone on to date some people that started as one night stands. But generally speaking, if I think he has relationship potential I prefer to make him work for it a little...
So if you are attracted to a guy, I assume that means sexually too- but if you see something special about him you push those urges aside? I don't claim to really know what I'm talking about, I don't have a track record w/ boyfriends really. I've had just a few and none ended well, but it seems to me that the more you thought about yourself being with a guy, the more attracted to him you would be, which would land you in the sack with him sooner. How do you separate a guy who is relationship material from a guy who is just a one time thing, if you are attracted to both? I've met lots of guys who I thought, "now here is a guy who would treat me right, etc." but usually I'm just not as attracted to those guys.
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Gals, how much time passes between meeting a guy and sleeping with him?
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Gals, how much time passes between meeting a guy and sleeping with him?
well ... I don't sleep with every person I meet!
seriously ... it is all in the chemistry and/or if you are anticipating a relationship. some are just good for the once-a-fuck situation.