I don't cyber much at all and like many of the ladies have said, it really helps if I'm into who is on the other side. As to whether there is a point, one way to look at it is, do you enjoy erotic stories? If you can be aroused by reading erotica, then you can be aroused by cyber. Look at it as a live interactive reading. Done properly, cyber can be more fulfilling than solo masturbation, you just have to find someone capable of turning you on.
Great question, and a complicated answer. Too many good replies in this thread to quote them all.
My first experience was a random one and I faked but got off thinking of it later. Overall, it was a tremendous rush even if I didn't know any better.
The second was with someone I bonded with and there was no comparison. He really knew his stuff and schooled the hell out of me. Even so, out of dozens of chats I got off in real time maybe fewer than six. Out of all the scenes we played on one another, only one or two from each side really hit the memorably hot level.
The third fell somewhere in the cracks, with similar percentages. Have learned I can't do this on a random basis, need a strong level of rapport and heat (and trust!). I like to study my partner and tend to be hyper focused on his enjoyment. As for my own, there's always that pressure of feeling like it's taking too long, or when I want to come more than once will he wait and all that.
Short answer? Yes, it's happened, but not nearly as much as it should have.
I cyber a lot as my friends here know and yes I do get off a lot while doing it. Some people just have a way with words... hehehe
With the right person it can be amazing.
Honestly? I usually don't, because I'm too focused on getting my partner off. If she cums, that's a successful cyber for me.
Have a few times but the person on the other end needs to be someone I have got to talked to and got to know as much as we can on line. Usually don't even try to tho. But it does spi e up the sex life with hubbie,mmm
With the right person yes there has to be some sort of chemistry , same likes and fantasies etc , texting and phone sex with your partner are also in the same range lol . and yes to both
Having never cybered, I guess the answer would be zero...I prefer sex in person
ive only ever cybered once or twice, so not for me, but i do have fun helping the other person get off.... :P
Yes I have can't say all the time....as most have posted before me it depends on who your cybering with.....not everyone has the knack to bring it home
it is usually soon after for me but only if the cyber really got me going.
If I cyber, and it's not that often, yes I do because that is why I am doing it!
I do. If I say i'm getting off, then I am. Right now I only Cyber (and real life) with my Master, Darkstarfish.
From past experience, I have found I really don't get off unless there is a connection of some sort.
I have done and I do if partner is right .If he/she can stimulate my mind with words .
Raises guilty hand from back of the room. When there were the old Yahoo chat rooms I had a few female and one female friend that I met with online regularly when husband was out.
Oh, me! I have to confess, I think I've had a little more than others since the online world was my first sexual encounter. I love to talk dirty and love being talked dirty to.
I used to do, at times... but after joining Lush, the frequency has increased manifolds.... such a fantastic lovers here :P
Occasionally, but not often. It takes a guy or a girl that is really good w their words to make it happen. In my experience, everyone thinks they are good dirty chatters, but few really are.
For my first few cyber sessions, I massaged my cunny with three fingers and caressed my clitty with my thumb, but my timing was off due to having to use the keyboard, so I did not cum in unison with the chat..!! But, I did cum after the chat was over.
I needed to be "hands-free", so I bought a small, insertable dildo vibe with an adjustable power dial, allowing me to adjust the sensation to coincide with the chat. I start out on Low....then as the chat heats up, go to Medium, then when the chat sends us each to near-orgasm, I go to High. I do not miss any orgasms this way, and usually have two or more during each session. They are usually long, powerful and wavy, and I love and enjoy them very much.
Lush has provided me with, yet, another venue for meaningful sexual expression and to satisfy my lust with both men and fems. Though my preference is fem love, I do occasionally crave and seek out selective cock, but it must be generous and durable, being able to last at least an hour. Love to all, Scarlett xxxxoooo
For my first few cyber sessions, I massaged my cunny with three fingers and caressed my clitty with my thumb, but my timing was off due to having to use the keyboard, so I did not cum in unison with the chat..!! But, I did cum after the chat was over.
I needed to be "hands-free", so I bought a small, insertable dildo vibe with an adjustable power dial, allowing me to adjust the sensation to coincide with the chat. I start out on Low....then as the chat heats up, go to Medium, then when the chat sends us each to near-orgasm, I go to High. I do not miss any orgasms this way, and usually have two or more during each session. They are usually long, powerful and wavy, and I love and enjoy them very much.
Lush has provided me with, yet, another venue for meaningful sexual expression and to satisfy my lust with both men and fems. Though my preference is fem love, I do occasionally crave, then seek out selective cock, but it must be generous and durable, being able to last at least an hour. Love to all, Scarlett xxxxoooo
it can happen, but it's hardly my prime motivation for Lushing. It's much more likely to happen here when it evolves from a chat i'm having that's turned erotic and sensual. Hate like hell having to keep my keyboard clean and dry.
Cyber takes chemistry same as any other sex. I have a lover who makes me cum like no other lover I have had in my bed (u know who you are Baby K. But you have to design methods that result in the outcums you want (lol). I nearly always use a hands free dildo when i cyber. I have my desk pulled next to my bed perfect level for me to type with two hands and ride my dill (which has intended to be hands free). This gives me the option of touching my clit between exchanges.
Chemistry is magical... I know within the first dozen exchanges if the girl at the other end is going to excite me or not. Doesn't mean she can't be a friend... i have lots of friends here. I have only one true lover here.
Yes I have many times especially if it's detailed and chemistry flows right.
I have tried cybering a couple of times on here when my partner has been out at the pub with his mates, but wasn't stimulted physically or mentally. On both occasions the guys wanted to get in to the sex straight away. With the first one I soon realised he wasn't my kind of guy, so I exited fairly quickly. The second guy, I liked his photo, and he was pleading how desperate he was for relief, so I answered the questions he put to me in as dirty and provocative a manner as I could muster while he masturbated. It only took a few minutes, five at the most including out introductory chat When he'd had his orgasm he thanked me and asked what he could do for me in return. I lied, telling him I'd already creamed my knickers just thinking about what he was doing. That was last summer. I have no intention of doing it again.
He is brilliant with on line cyber sexting.