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How important is a man's height?

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I'm 5'2
its hard to find a guy shorter than me
Not to sound shallow or anything
but I love a man taller than me ... Preferably round 6ft
its just a huge turn on to have a man bigger than you wrap around you
Active Ink Slinger
I prefer tall men, like seriously a 7ft man is automatically sexier than someone of average height to me, but just if he's taller is attractive enough. I just can't find a shorter man attractive, since I'm not very tall anyway it's not a big issue.
Lurker
i dont think that height is a problem ........we are all the same size lying down xxx
Lurker
Well, I'm quite tall (5 foot 11) and so I can't be hideously fussy about height, I'm willing to go a tad short (my boyfriend is around 5 foot 10), it isn't a case of finding them 'unattractive' when they get to a certain shortness....it's just the little things, being able to rest your head on their shoulder, not have to lean down to kiss them, feel like they're able to take care of you physically should a situation occur, and so on....

Furthermore, from a sex point of view, drastically different heights can pose an issue for some positions.
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I'm 5ft 3 so a man's height isn't much of a problem to me but I do like them to be tall. Ideally anywhere from 5ft 10 to 6ft.
Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by icecreamcandy
I am about 5'4 and i have to say i wouldn't go out with anyone shorter than me, but thats just my preference....



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I am 160 cm and all my friends are taller
Lurker
I am 6 foot 5 inches tall. Every women I date is shorter then me, simply by default. Ive dated women from 4 foot 11 ( she used to stand on a chair if she yelled at me) to 6 feet tall. I know this is an ask the gals question I just wanted to point out an observation. My brother is 5 foot 6 and when we go out to bars women tend to approach me to dance more so then him but if we are both sitting down on a stool its about 50/50 on who gets talked to first.
Removalist
I am tall. I wear heels. Height is important.
Lurker
I'm 5'5" and I used to only want a guy who was 6ft or taller, but after I met my friend who I really like, who is 5'7", I could care less about height.
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I never been out with a guy shorter than me and it wasn't his height that attracted me in the first place. I have come across some of the 5' syndrome, what they lacked in height they made up in loads by being arses. I don't need a man to make me feel secure as Im confident enough within myself to be amongst the masses I could easily pick up my man & toss him on the bed & I have done it too ... much to his delight lol.
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I know it's asked to girls but i was quite interested in this because i'm 6'3 and my grown up sisters range from 5'10 to 6'1 and I don't think any of them have ever had a shorter boyfriend
Head Nurse
i stand 6' before i put on my heels and I lOVE heels, so yea height is important. plus logistics with a shorter guy becomes an issue. that being said I tend to date people close to my height, even slightly shorter. (for my wedding, my ex wore heels(boots) and i wore flats(sandals), lol!)
Lurker
I'm just under 5'8" which is reasonably tall. I have to say that I do prefer a taller man, at the very least the same height as me, preferably a little taller...

I do like to be able to wear heels and still have my fella be taller, I wonder if I associate height with dominance, or strength or something...

I also prefer a guy who isn't skinny...
Lurker
I'd say pretty important. You dont have to be a certain height. You just need to be taller than me which isnt hard considering I'm only 5'4 smile
Active Ink Slinger
I'm a short woman (5 feet even) and i find it refreshing to hook up with a shorter guy.
When it comes to choosing a man to be with a lot comes down to confidence, if hes awkward and comes across as having low self esteem women your first though is that is how the guy will be in bed. Your friend should just own his height.
Rookie Scribe
i don't think many men will get with a taller woman?
Active Ink Slinger
I'm only about 5'2" but I have to admit I still prefer men 5'8" and taller. My present partner is 5'8". The really tall guys are still very attractive to me. I did go out with one guy my size but couldn't feel attracted to him at all. I think if a guy was at least a few inches shorter than me and was very confident and fit, I would not hesitate to go out with him. However, the tall guys have an unfair advantage.
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Active Ink Slinger
Oops that was: I think if a guy was at least a few inches *taller* than me and was very confident and fit, I would not hesitate to go out with him
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Clumeleon
Quote by rocco
i don't think many men will get with a taller woman?


On a superficial level, I'm usually more attracted to taller women (esp. w/ long, shapely legs). Seeing as I'm 5'10, that means they're usually pretty tall (for females).
Active Ink Slinger
well, i have always been out with taller men seein as im 5"2 but i once dated a man who as 5"4 and i actually didnt feel safe or loved! Had to leave him after a few months. Before him i was with a man who was 6ft8! And now im with someone who is 6ft6!!! So, i have to say i LOVE really tall men, they make me feel so safe and i love standin on my tip toes for kisses! LOVE IT!
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Constant Gardener
Fascinating advances in this field. Interesting videos on the site below (if you can view them).

New York Man adds six inches through $85,000 surgery.

At five foot, six inches, Apotheosis was shorter than the average American male and very unhappy about it.

So he did something other men who feel short might consider unthinkable: he opted for costly, painful surgeries to make himself "grow" a total of six inches.
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Interesting story. I can understand why they want it.
Advanced Wordsmith
I am attracted to men that are at least as tall as me when I am in heels.
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i like tall guys. im kinda short so it really isnt the problem. but the taller the better.

if your tall it just makes you more attractive. doesnt mean i wont date someone who is 5'9 instead of 6'2 i just think tall guys are more attractive
Advanced Wordsmith
It's hard for me to say. I'm pretty short, but I've never really been put off talking to a man because of his height as long as they're articulate and confident. If their height bothers them, it's pretty easy to tell, unfortunately.
Lurker
Since I am short...most guys are taller than me!
Lurker
I'm the kind of girl that likes both tall and short guys but i prefer tall guys looking up into there eyes before a kiss is always a magical moment for me as it creates a trust between me and the guy.
And that's why i prefer guys that are taller then me. Not saying that short guys are bad... just saying that tall guys are more attractive for me and probably a lot of other girls.
Lurker
I prefer taller guys. I'm 5'6 so I am nearly 5'10 in heels, so if a guy isn't at least 5'10 I'd feel too self-conscious in heels. Plus, there is nothing sexier than safe and small next to a tall guy.