I love giving a girl her first orgasm just using my hands and fingers (and mouth) before we fuck.
How do you like your pussy be played with? I learned that some girls, provided you can get plenty of juice out of her vagina can stand rubbing their clits directly, others enjoy more if you rub the hood above it, some like the side of the hood against the side of the clit. Some like one finger up their pussies, some a lot of fingers, finding the g-spot. Did not meet a lot of girls that liked porn style fingerfucking though. Some like if I have a flat hand above her pubic bone that pulls upwards while fingering. What do you like?