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How do you know when you're horny?

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I mean, what happens when you're horny. Is it just a state of mind? Do you randomly get wet and realize you're horny? Do you mentally realize you're horny and then get wet? Not get wet at all? Is it just a feeling or is there some physiological change too? Is an orgasm different when you've done it because you "needed" to?

If I go a few days without any release and I feel horny, I get achy. Balls ache sometimes. I swear it feels like my teeth itch if it's been too long. If I masturbate because of horniness, I tend to clench my jaws, which I don't do other times I'm being sexually active.

Just curious if it's any different for you ladies.



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I tend to be moist all the time so for me it is a state of mind to be horny. My mood changes and I look for a way to either change my thoughts or act on them, depending on where I am. As for the orgasm it goes both ways. Any changes in orgasm are influenced by how I act on my desires. If I masturbate it is less intense than penetration.
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When I get horny I feel a heating sensation and my labia feel heavy. I can feel things swell and "flower" even if I'm just wearing pants and walking around. I get wet and feel a mild erotic pressure. Then I start thinking about sex and eyeing up everyone who walks by and that just makes it worse!
I feel it in my lips first and then I am suddenly very wet and tingly and turned on. At that point I know I am horny and need sex. My orgasm is more intense if I need to "get off" rather than it just happening. I can think about sex and become turned on rather quickly or be in a situation to get physically turned on. The end result is the same just varied in intensity and what I need to have happen to reach climax.
I get horny from thinking about sex, and that's often! My lips become more sensitive and my panties get wet very fast! Sometimes I start wet, and having wet panties against my pussy feels so good. That will definitely cause some major horniness! Cumming because I feel like I need to is so much more satisfying and exciting than just when I want to or because it will help me fall asleep. Afterwards, I'll leave my pussy wet with cum and get myself horny again!
For me its both physical and a state of mind, of course as a woman I get wet, then my body becomes super sensitive, but mentally I enter this "must fuck mode" I imagine it's how animals feel like when they are ready to mate.
Thank you ladies for your responses, they are very enlightening.



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Hello

Its been interesting to read what other girls have said about this, just so that I can find out if my own experience of feeling "horny" is similar to that of other girls and compare. Ive often wondered if what I experience is "normal", but never felt confident enough to ask any of my friends about it. So, having read the comments on here so far, it sounds like my own experience is sort of the same.

I usually feel more horny just before my period. It usually starts with physical changes...like my labia becoming more "tingley" and sensitive, and they start to appear darker red in colour, and slightly larger. Then, like other girls have said, I notice that I become wetter than normal...often I find that my panties will become very wet, and I sometimes have to change them if it gets too much. Then I find that I start having more "sexual" thoughts than I have normally - like actually needing to touch myself, which I dont normally do. I dont normally think about masturbating, but at that time of the month I cant stop myself...its like my brain gets taken over and makes me do it.
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Damn LM what a weird question. my body begins to tingle, almost like an itch. I try to scratch it but the feeling just intensifies. the more i scratch the itchier it gets, my little boobs swell, my nipples get hard, my nether lips swell, my clit grows bigger and oh so sensitive. my panties are soaked, i kinda know I'm just a little horny then.
For me it is definitely a state of mind first. Sometimes I can wake up thinking horny thoughts. Other times it can come over me unexpectedly in a chat or reading a story. By the time I feel the physical stuff the others talk about I am already having sex or at least masturbating.
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For me it is definitely a state of mind first. Sometimes I can wake up thinking horny thoughts. Other times it can come over me unexpectedly in a chat or reading a story. By the time I feel the physical stuff the others talk about I am already having sex or at least masturbating.


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For me its both physical and a state of mind, of course as a woman I get wet, then my body becomes super sensitive, but mentally I enter this "must fuck mode" I imagine it's how animals feel like when they are ready to mate.


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Much more an ache than a tingle.. Wetness too, but it's that damned ache that demands attention!
Our female privates feel it and swell too ~ even if it can be a state of mind and in mental thoughts about something that turns us on sexually, someone, some 'thing,' thinking of some sex act, or anticipation thereof (-whatever stimulus out clitoris gets hard and larger-breasts too, as well as nipples stand more erect -even if mine are smply always erect naturally, they do grow longer and stand stiffer and more pointed at attention the more sexually excited I am, of course). We feel it in a feeling deep within us, inside and topically with regards to our inner privates and genitalia: we pulse, tickle, tingle, ache, and yearn... and it builds~ sometimes, but not always randomly becoming wet or reacting physically. We do not have to be thinking about something sexual to becaome aroused. It may just happen for some unknown reason or it may be situational, from a vibration, or from seeing something that dictates our body to have a response. It may not be a touch either, or a direct touch that sets us off or incorporates a chain reaction.

I feel like I sit up straighter. I feel like my back arches and I naturally seem to grow in breast size, even though they may not actually get any larger, they gain the appearance, volume, stiffer, due to other factors tightening muscles as well.

Oh I KNOW when I am horny/-ier, because the feelings increase and increase and my thoughts will build upon it and the body feeds on the growing sensation. I may even begin to feel a need to move or grind plus I will be consumed by a throbbing need to fufill this urge one way or another!

Well my whole body gets very sensitive....even my sense of smell increases? Weird right? And for me I totally want my nipples touched. It's like an ache and a need....hard to describe. Also that ache is in my pussy and it's a combination of ache/desire/need/tingles....all in a cocktail of desire. Somehow you just want your body to be touched, stroked, licked, tickled and played with....you need tactile sensations....and yes your pussy gets wet haha. Can't help it. It is worst about 3 or 4 days before my period. Fuck sometimes I can literally want to climb the walls if I haven't had sex for a few days. Right now I'm single so my vibrator needs batteries (stop giggling girls....it's true).
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Well my whole body gets very sensitive....even my sense of smell increases? Weird right? And for me I totally want my nipples touched. It's like an ache and a need....hard to describe. Also that ache is in my pussy and it's a combination of ache/desire/need/tingles....all in a cocktail of desire. Somehow you just want your body to be touched, stroked, licked, tickled and played with....you need tactile sensations....and yes your pussy gets wet haha. Can't help it. It is worst about 3 or 4 days before my period. Fuck sometimes I can literally want to climb the walls if I haven't had sex for a few days. Right now I'm single so my vibrator needs batteries (stop giggling girls....it's true).


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Well my whole body gets very sensitive....even my sense of smell increases? Weird right? And for me I totally want my nipples touched. It's like an ache and a need....hard to describe. Also that ache is in my pussy and it's a combination of ache/desire/need/tingles....all in a cocktail of desire. Somehow you just want your body to be touched, stroked, licked, tickled and played with....you need tactile sensations....and yes your pussy gets wet haha. Can't help it. It is worst about 3 or 4 days before my period. Fuck sometimes I can literally want to climb the walls if I haven't had sex for a few days. Right now I'm single so my vibrator needs batteries (stop giggling girls....it's true).



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Well my whole body gets very sensitive....even my sense of smell increases? Weird right? And for me I totally want my nipples touched. It's like an ache and a need....hard to describe. Also that ache is in my pussy and it's a combination of ache/desire/need/tingles....all in a cocktail of desire. Somehow you just want your body to be touched, stroked, licked, tickled and played with....you need tactile sensations....and yes your pussy gets wet haha. Can't help it. It is worst about 3 or 4 days before my period. Fuck sometimes I can literally want to climb the walls if I haven't had sex for a few days. Right now I'm single so my vibrator needs batteries (stop giggling girls....it's true).



Aside from another easily observable sign, I find myself sitting here with my mouth open, drooling on myself. What I wouldn't give to be on your radar at that moment smile
I seem to be horny most of the time these days, but the signs are obvious - raised pulse rate, tingling in a all sorts if interesting places, you all know the signs - O, and an irresistible urge to masturbate. Life is fun!
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It happens regularly too. everytime I get to 350.
How do you not know ur horny? I'm always kinda thinking in my head about fantasies and I'm always wet, but when I'm real horny I get really frisky or I masturbate a lot.
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Well my whole body gets very sensitive....even my sense of smell increases? Weird right? And for me I totally want my nipples touched. It's like an ache and a need....hard to describe. Also that ache is in my pussy and it's a combination of ache/desire/need/tingles....all in a cocktail of desire. Somehow you just want your body to be touched, stroked, licked, tickled and played with....you need tactile sensations....and yes your pussy gets wet haha. Can't help it. It is worst about 3 or 4 days before my period. Fuck sometimes I can literally want to climb the walls if I haven't had sex for a few days. Right now I'm single so my vibrator needs batteries (stop giggling girls....it's true).


Great answer. This is kinda what I was looking for. Thank you for that.



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Actually I felt myself getting wet. I would squeeze my tights when my parents are around, that's why I would mostly excuse myself and start fingering my pussy. It really turns me on whenever i read or watch porn. If Im alone I would definitely get naked, place a mirror beside my bed and starts dancing with madonna's song playing in my cd player. Then, I'd start fingering myself. I love being finger fucked. The way i would squirm and shake under a fast movement