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How do you deal with a pest??

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Stephen_Q
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Ladies,
My online girlfriend is being bothered by a pest here on lush. It started off very innocent, exchanging friendly messages and chats without any sexual conversation or innuendo. He suddenly changed and started sending her very graphic pics of bondage and domination and telling he wants to dominate her because she liked some stories on this topic.
After she told him not send these and that she did not like him sending these messages, he has now professed his love for her. Luckily she has not spoken with him outside lush and he has only minimal details on where she is. She has blocked him on here but is this enough? Is there anything else she should do?
How do you deal with the psycho guys who become a serial pest on here?
Nikki703
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If she has blocked him, has not given him info on where she lives or pics of herself, then he can no longer contact her. If she feels this is not enough and feels threatened by him, she should report him to the powers to be at Lush.

But I would bet if he can no longer contact her, he will just go away.
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Quote by Nikki703
If she has blocked him, has not given him info on where she lives or pics of herself, then he can no longer contact her. If she feels this is not enough and feels threatened by him, she should report him to the powers to be at Lush.

But I would bet if he can no longer contact her, he will just go away.


good answer.. biggrin


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KatieElizabeth
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The block should be enough. A hard block prevents all contact and the person can't even see you as being online. If for some reason the block doesn't work, use the "contact us " function and Lush admin will probably look into it for you.
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Mysteria27
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Blocking is a wonderful thing. Once you do a hard block they can't even see when you're online, in chat rooms or email you.

That should take care of everything for your friend.

xo
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Quote by Stephen_Q
Ladies,
My online girlfriend is being bothered by a pest here on lush. It started off very innocent, exchanging friendly messages and chats without any sexual conversation or innuendo. He suddenly changed and started sending her very graphic pics of bondage and domination and telling he wants to dominate her because she liked some stories on this topic.
After she told him not send these and that she did not like him sending these messages, he has now professed his love for her. Luckily she has not spoken with him outside lush and he has only minimal details on where she is. She has blocked him on here but is this enough? Is there anything else she should do?
How do you deal with the psycho guys who become a serial pest on here?



yes block is perfect... however.. the guy can come back as another id smile carefull for that
splodger
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Whenever I've had a pest problem I call in "Rentokil Pest Control"
Mysteria27
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I think M has earned a "Queen of Block" badge. ❤️




When one is harassed it's the only option...I could tell you stories of some of the lovelies I have come in contact here. The only thing to do is block.

But if they are offering a badge for the most blocked I would think I would be high on that list.
Mysteria27
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yes block is perfect... however.. the guy can come back as another id smile carefull for that



You are definitely right on that. I had that happen several times. But after a few conversations I knew it was that same person.

Good advice. That certainly happens...

Xo
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You are definitely right on that. I had that happen several times. But after a few conversations I knew it was that same person.

Good advice. That certainly happens...

Xo



Same here Lol
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Quote by Mysteria27



You are definitely right on that. I had that happen several times. But after a few conversations I knew it was that same person.

Good advice. That certainly happens...

Xo



Same here Lol
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You are definitely right on that. I had that happen several times. But after a few conversations I knew it was that same person.

Good advice. That certainly happens...

Xo



Same here Lol
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You are definitely right on that. I had that happen several times. But after a few conversations I knew it was that same person.

Good advice. That certainly happens...

Xo
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Quote by Nikki703
If she has blocked him, has not given him info on where she lives or pics of herself, then he can no longer contact her. If she feels this is not enough and feels threatened by him, she should report him to the powers to be at Lush.

But I would bet if he can no longer contact her, he will just go away.


This.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
CurlyGirly
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Quote by Nikki703
If she has blocked him, has not given him info on where she lives or pics of herself, then he can no longer contact her. If she feels this is not enough and feels threatened by him, she should report him to the powers to be at Lush.

But I would bet if he can no longer contact her, he will just go away.


Oh wise Nikki!!!
Chlo-bug
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Block and delete! I've come across a few 'pests' in my time here, unfortunately blocking is the only way. Yes they could come back under a different ID, but once you get chatting you realise it's the same person or another pest who you don't want to socialise with.

My block list has more people on it than my friends list - that may seem harsh but no one should feel bad about choosing who they interact with carefully.

This whole issue is why I'm so guarded with my personal details, it's a lot easier to block someone than to take out a restraining order
Stephen_Q
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Thanks for all the great replies lovely ladies of lush! I make sure she blocks him! Hopefully he won't try again as a new profile!