How do I get my wife to be more Dominant in the bedroom? She has tried this but always is asking instead of telling any advise? I have brought up the idea of tying me up and other stuff. And she does this but without the dominance that I would like
tell her more to use pain and pleasure so get her to slap you, tease you, shout at you etc.
Hand her a riding crop, drop your pants, bend over and say,"Spank me Mommy, I have been a baaaaaaad boy!"
If that doesn't work it sounds like being dominant just isn't in your wife's nature.
I know I am new here but I thought this was ask the gals. Not the advise was bad just would like to hear a girls perspective
Maybe looking for erotic or soft porn movies involving dominant female characters and share them with her. She could be aroused and want to play the same way with you. Also definitely purchasing more toys to motivate dominant foreplay from her part. Did you get the cock leash already?That's a must have in order to objectify you and make her see you like the sexy toy that I bet you are!