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i have been told im bad at sex, how do i really find out and any tips on how to improve???
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Alpha Blonde
You need to go back and ask for more details, or the next time someone offers a post-coital appraisal put in a request for more information.
It's like saying "you're bad at hockey"... it's too vague to offer advice on improvement or what skills you need to work on.
It's like saying "you're bad at hockey"... it's too vague to offer advice on improvement or what skills you need to work on.
The internet is a wonderful tool - get googling. Otherwise, as has been said, you need to ask (if possible) what they felt you could have done better on or what you missed out/need to include. With future sex partners the best bet is to ask them what turns them on/gets them going and try to incorporate that in sex sessions 
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if more than one women had said you are bad at sex you probably are- no test to find out other than your partners satisfaction
It's really vague but these tips might be a starting point...
ask specific questions
be a good listner
appeal to her mind and heart before touching her body
touch, kiss, lick, suck, bite, play with her the way you'd like to be touched, if that doesn't work try going softer
don't forget, a set of hips is part of your anatomy, learn to move them (dance lessons help)
read up. get a book some are really fun
those are suggestions off the top of my head... good luck.
ask specific questions
be a good listner
appeal to her mind and heart before touching her body
touch, kiss, lick, suck, bite, play with her the way you'd like to be touched, if that doesn't work try going softer
don't forget, a set of hips is part of your anatomy, learn to move them (dance lessons help)
read up. get a book some are really fun
those are suggestions off the top of my head... good luck.
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Paying close attention to your partner's reactions helps. If something gets you a good reaction, keep doing it. If it doesn't, move on right away.
If you need ideas on what exactly to do... lush is a nice place to start. Porn's are a big no-no. =| They're geared mostly to visually stimulate men, they're not documentaries on sexual technique.
I think the best thing is to ask questions. The best person to ask questions to is your partner, the second best is places like lush. There must be a million posts in here about what people like during sex, and how they like it.
If you need ideas on what exactly to do... lush is a nice place to start.
Porn's are a big no-no. =| They're geared mostly to visually stimulate men, they're not documentaries on sexual technique.I think the best thing is to ask questions. The best person to ask questions to is your partner, the second best is places like lush. There must be a million posts in here about what people like during sex, and how they like it.
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Quote by rockstar81
It's really vague but these tips might be a starting point...
ask specific questions
be a good listner
appeal to her mind and heart before touching her body
touch, kiss, lick, suck, bite, play with her the way you'd like to be touched, if that doesn't work try going softer
don't forget, a set of hips is part of your anatomy, learn to move them (dance lessons help)
read up. get a book some are really fun
those are suggestions off the top of my head... good luck.
/likes all of these suggestions
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Quote by rockstar81
It's really vague but these tips might be a starting point...
ask specific questions
be a good listner
appeal to her mind and heart before touching her body
touch, kiss, lick, suck, bite, play with her the way you'd like to be touched, if that doesn't work try going softer
don't forget, a set of hips is part of your anatomy, learn to move them (dance lessons help)
read up. get a book some are really fun
those are suggestions off the top of my head... good luck.
/likes all of these suggestions