Imagine this situation: an immigrant couple lives in Europe, or the USA. They have two small kids.But the financial crisis makes things tough, he loses his job or something, so the husband says "look darling, I am gonna send you back with the kids for a while, until things get better here so you can come back here or I'll go there".
So she goes, "sure baby, whatever you say", and goes back to their former country, and hubby starts sending her money every month. (you can live in some countries with 100 dollars a month)
Now, the guy happens to have other kids from his first wife, (he's a bit of a player,), in fact this relationship started when he cheated on his first wife and she was the lover, until he abandoned his first wife and married her. He is in his mid 30s and she is 20. (so since he is older he can control her like a puppet)
Regarding this scenario from the outside it seems clear that this new relationship has no future at all, the guy is just geting rid of her and the kids using the excuse of the money...but what do you think about it?
As a woman, would you ever do something like this, I mean, trusting somebody like "okay, I am going bak with the two kids to another continent and wait paciently until you decide the next move"? Or do you think it's just suicidal and shows that the people involved in this are just a bunch of airheads?