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Have you had an affair?
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Active Ink Slinger
i have cheated 3 times in my relationship, let me tell you, its down to the fact that relationships get BORING, and i find the other people through work or people i already know, and yes, i would do it again, i say what you dont know dont hurt you! i mean, im not planning to leave my partner anytime soon so these guys are just thrills and excitement for me, just to get me through the boredom of my relationship, you may say leave him but he is a safety for me and a good catch so i just entertain myself other ways....
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No! I have never cheated when I was in a relationship that I considered serious. But if you count someone I dated like 6 or 7 times but was not really serious about and then had sex with someone else, then yes.
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i have cheated 3 times in my relationship, let me tell you, its down to the fact that relationships get BORING, and i find the other people through work or people i already know, and yes, i would do it again, i say what you dont know dont hurt you! i mean, im not planning to leave my partner anytime soon so these guys are just thrills and excitement for me, just to get me through the boredom of my relationship, you may say leave him but he is a safety for me and a good catch so i just entertain myself other ways....
why not have an open relationship?
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Quote by WHR43
Does it count if your husband know about the affair, but not who the other person maybe?
To me, an affair is having a sexual relationship behind your partner's back. So if your hubby knows and is OK with it, then I wouldnt call it an affair. But that is just my definition, not sure how others may feel
Alpha Blonde
Sort of... but I only did it for a couple of weeks and was finding ways to avoid having sex with my boyfriend at the time, once I started being intimate with the new guy. It was about a month total before I dumped the old boyfriend for the new guy.
I met the new guy through friends and though just being on the same social scene etc.
In general, I wouldn't be good at having a full-on affair. I'm really uncomfortable with faking intimacy/attraction and lying to a partner that I'd still be wanting to continue a relationship with.
I met the new guy through friends and though just being on the same social scene etc.
In general, I wouldn't be good at having a full-on affair. I'm really uncomfortable with faking intimacy/attraction and lying to a partner that I'd still be wanting to continue a relationship with.
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
No, I have never had an affair while I was the one in a relationship.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, but not something I am proud of. I admit it was quite a time of lust and fantasies fulfilled.
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Rookie Scribe
I've never cheated on anyone, ever. I know what it feels like to be cheated on and I couldn't put someone through that. But, I think it depends on the relationships themselves. Nowdays, financially marriage is a terrible idea, at least without a prenuptial agreement. Oftentimes people become stuck in a dead relationship just because they can't afford to leave there partner. In that case I full understand having an affair. But, not without at least talking to your partner about an open relationship first.
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Yes, but not something I am proud of. I admit it was quite a time of lust and fantasies fulfilled.
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Active Ink Slinger
No I haven't. You should only sleep with one person at a time. If things change or if it's gets boring in a relationship then end it and move on. Don't drag another party in because you are bored and there is something wrong with the current relationship sort it out before having an affair.
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Quote by sexyeyes37
I know this is a stupid question but does it count if you havent had sex ith the other person yet...(he's married).
It doesn't take sex to consolidate an affair. Once you start going behind your S.O back and keeping things from them that counts as an affair in my book.
I cheated on my husband one time. I can say that afterwards I felt awful and very unfulfilled. It shouldn't have happened and my husband found out. Now, we were not married at the time but to me being married doesn't matter.
When my husband found out he cried and I cried. I promised to never do it again and I haven't and I never will. I still can't believe I would risk our happiness for a one night stand with an ex.
When my husband found out he cried and I cried. I promised to never do it again and I haven't and I never will. I still can't believe I would risk our happiness for a one night stand with an ex.
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Glenn talking
I have had two affairs. The current one for the last 20 years. Gf doesn't believe in marriage. Fine by me. Wife is happy I pay my share of the bills and don't ask for sex. LOL.Wife knew after 2 months. She cried that weekend and then has been fine with it ever since. Often giving me food and freebies for my gf and I to share. haven't been poisoned yet. LOL. I had that affair because I got very tired of sex once every three months a 28 years old. Also, wife refused to do anything fun at all. All she wanted to do was go shopping then watch tv all night. ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ. Wasn't like that when we got married. It was like once the ring was on, that was it.
I have had two affairs. The current one for the last 20 years. Gf doesn't believe in marriage. Fine by me. Wife is happy I pay my share of the bills and don't ask for sex. LOL.Wife knew after 2 months. She cried that weekend and then has been fine with it ever since. Often giving me food and freebies for my gf and I to share. haven't been poisoned yet. LOL. I had that affair because I got very tired of sex once every three months a 28 years old. Also, wife refused to do anything fun at all. All she wanted to do was go shopping then watch tv all night. ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ. Wasn't like that when we got married. It was like once the ring was on, that was it.
This is my ex not me.
Bf and I share account
Bf and I share account
Active Ink Slinger
I cheated on my first boyfriend. I lost my virginity to him but it was a disappointing night so the next day I fucked someone else and dumped him after because of the guilt.
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Advanced Wordsmith
Yes I have and it normally means the other relationship is ending soon. But I do have a ex gf that whenever she comes home we normally always have sex.
Active Ink Slinger
I never have........ unless you want to count coming onto Lush
