Just curious of the experiences of other ladies on this topic. I am planning on getting a massage next week and I was thinking about this, and have had many experiences over the years when getting a massage and wonder what others have experienced.
Not talking about fantasy, having sex with the guy (unless that actually played out)... but real experiences like them brushing fingers against you under the sheet, or the sides of your breasts, or unexpectedly getting a breast or butt massage, or exposing you while they massage.
I personally have experienced all of those at one point, some more than others. That was all, they didn't push for more to happen, and I didn't mind it at all, was just surprised they did it and wonder if that is a more common experience than not. A few of the times I had things happen were during a couples massage with my husband and I was really surprised they were that bold.
Would you like to expand on what happened during the couples massages?
Sorry to butt in on "ask the gals" but this post reminded me of this one time I was getting a massage. The therapist was a slightly chunky young gal who was doing a great job. I didn't dare pick up my head to look but when my arms were hanging over the sides of the table I swear she had positioned herself so her crotch was pressed against my elbow and was working herself. She stayed there for a long time and kept working my back and shoulders from that position. When she finished the massage and I got up she had a big smile on her face. To this day I truly believe she quietly got off rubbing her clit on my elbow.
I've only had female masseuses and I don't mind if they push the limits.
Yes....from both male and female masseuses. Did I mind? Maybe not.
Not yet... but one can live in hope
Only one of the men who’ve massaged me over the years. I think one other may have tried, but I was asleep, jerking awake when I thought I felt something, and he quickly packed up and left. No idea if he really did try something or not.
As for the one guy who did play: I knew in advance he wanted something (could tell by the way he looked at me). I must’ve sent a vibe as well, because he didn’t seem shy about rolling over sideboob or brushing against my muffin from time to time. He was clearly seeing what was do-able, and I let him do whatever he wanted (was going through a phase at that time: my "always horny" phase). I imagine my pussy told him a lot; I could feel the wetting, the relax of it.
Toward the end, as he brushed against my puss, I spread my legs a little, writhing just a bit and that seemed to send enough message to go ahead and rub pussy. He eventually placed my hands (possibly) as to watch me do myself, which I obliged as his hands drifted nearer my nipples. The sheet was gone by then. I came (very quietly) while he rolled my nipples, kneaded my tits and then rolling my head to the side I put my mouth against his shorts and … well, heated him up, eventually asking (whispering) to suck it. He (somewhat shyly) obliged. We always plunged right in to (various) sexual play after that (Not usually actual penetration, unless you count dildos) Soft S&M, oral, etc.