Ok ladies, for years now, I have been watching porn. As luck would have it, my first and now second wife do not seem to be much in the mood for sex most of the time. For a guy with an above average sex drive, I had to find release. Watching movies allowed me that release. Sometimes, several times per day.
Last night, as my wife was sleeping, I ended up talking to and eventually having the best orgasm I have had in a while.
Do you ladies ever find yourself in this situation?
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
why would you marry someone who has no interest in sex ... let alone twice??
I dont understand the question? Do you mean chatting to someone on here and getting off on it? Im sure thats a very common practice on this site
Some do, some dont, luck of the draw really. Best to always be polite though, never assume she will and if she says no drop it, dont keep pestering her. No quicker way to get yourself deleted!
Sometimes I come here to get off, sometimes just to chat with new people....my advice would be to try to find someone who you enjoy getting off with and have them become your go-to person...personally, I met an awesome guy on here and while I chat with other people, he's the only guy I get off with now and it's working for me!
there are many forums that debate whether or not cyber is cheating and since you are new to the practice, i wonder what your take on it is..
littlemissbitch ~ professional face ripper offer, at your service..
For me, cybersex crosses the line - it's cheating. I consider myself to be open minded - I read and write erotic stories, watch porn both with my boyfriend and alone and he does the same.... but nothing beats sex with the man I love.
It's good that you can talk about it but 'always being too tired' sounds iike avoidance. Relationships can and do work without sex but it's very difficult as sex is the cornerstone of intimacy; it's what makes your relationship with your partner unique. If you're not satisfying each other sexually both parties have to be open and accepting - or else you're both just living a lie.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Have you ever heard of cheating emotionally? If it's something you don't want your wife to know about, then you automatically know it's not right. End of story. No matter how you try to justify it. Be it an overcharged sex drive or lack of interest on her part. If you've got the time to get off online, you've got the time to try to rekindle your wife's interest in sex. There's RARELY any such thing as a woman who's not interested in sex. Hate to be harsh, but perhaps it's YOU that she doesn't find sexually appealing. Stop wasting your orgasms online and put in the effort so you and your wife can get back to pleasuring each other mutually.
I'm in a somewhat open relationship. But there's nothing that I do, either online or in real life, that my girlfriend doesn't know the FULL nature of.
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