I have a constant desire to be in a situation with multiple partners at the same time. I have tried to test the waters doing dp a couple of times but I still feel unsatisfied. I am a bit ashamed of it but I can't stop thinking about it.
I wanted to know if anyone has ever tried it or at least if anyone has the same urge as me.
Please don't make fun of me over this. ..
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Quote by TracyCum
I have a constant desire to be in a situation with multiple partners at the same time. I have tried to test the waters doing dp a couple of times but I still feel unsatisfied. I am a bit ashamed of it but I can't stop thinking about it.
I wanted to know if anyone has ever tried it or at least if anyone has the same urge as me.
Please don't make fun of me over this. ..
I can't imagine why anyone would make fun of you. I think probably more people share your desire for a gangbang than want to admit it, but it's probably not as common as porn would have us believe. Nothing wrong with it, and I hope you get a chance to experience your fantasy soon. Just be careful about protection, of course.
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Oops. I followed a link from your profile, and posted before I realized this was the "Ask the Girls" forum. Which I'm not. My bad...
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I love the fantasy of it, and lovve porn of it...but I know without a doubt the reality (for me) would not be the same at all; and I don't mean to be dramatic, but it would probably end with me curled in a ball, crying in the corner. Way too much. For me, fantasy is where it will stay.
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Quote by lilgirl1414
I love the fantasy of it, and lovve porn of it...but I know without a doubt the reality (for me) would not be the same at all; and I don't mean to be dramatic, but it would probably end with me curled in a ball, crying in the corner. Way too much. For me, fantasy is where it will stay.
Well I heard that before from my friends warning me about it but can't understand why. Can you help me with that?
I think there are all sorts of things about which a woman can have fantasies that are probably not such fun when it comes to the reality. Multiple sex partners is something that teases me a bit, but I suspect I would not only not enjoy it but would feel just dreadful about myself afterwards -- ashamed and more.
Quote by JacquieJ
I think there are all sorts of things about which a woman can have fantasies that are probably not such fun when it comes to the reality. Multiple sex partners is something that teases me a bit, but I suspect I would not only not enjoy it but would feel just dreadful about myself afterwards -- ashamed and more.
Why would you be ashamed?
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Quote by TracyCum
I have a constant desire to be in a situation with multiple partners at the same time. I have tried to test the waters doing dp a couple of times but I still feel unsatisfied. I am a bit ashamed of it but I can't stop thinking about it.
I wanted to know if anyone has ever tried it or at least if anyone has the same urge as me.
Please don't make fun of me over this. ..
What is it about the dp that you were not satisfied and did you do this with different lovers from time to time?
Active Ink Slinger
I think the idea of multiple partners and dp is a real mind blower. I have also had this fantasy for the longes time but I have never done anything about it.
I think it is one that is hard to fulfill, I wouldn't do it with a serious partner as it might destroy the relationship but I don't know any of my casual partners who might be happy to try this. I suppose I could go to a club or something like that but that seems tacky and for me (in my personal situation) is not an option.
I would say, and this is only my opinion, that if you can solve the sort of problems I have described then why not. If I could, if it were possible for me to find myself in a room with two or more guys (or guys and girls) I would most assuredly try it out.
I think it is one that is hard to fulfill, I wouldn't do it with a serious partner as it might destroy the relationship but I don't know any of my casual partners who might be happy to try this. I suppose I could go to a club or something like that but that seems tacky and for me (in my personal situation) is not an option.
I would say, and this is only my opinion, that if you can solve the sort of problems I have described then why not. If I could, if it were possible for me to find myself in a room with two or more guys (or guys and girls) I would most assuredly try it out.
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Quote by TracyCum
Well I heard that before from my friends warning me about it but can't understand why. Can you help me with that?
Ynu have little or no control.
I've been to gay ones and even stopped one. The guy was too scared to stop but was almost in tears. Got a blowjob in one and only watched the other times. Not really into being the tenth guy to fuck a cum filled hole!
For multiple partners I think you rhould go to an orgy. That way you are in control. You pick your partners, how many and stop when you want to.
Advanced Wordsmith
Not a woman either but, maybe trying it in a mild bondage setting might help (safe word ). As to being curled up in a ball and ashamed, that's the social norm talking, we are all taught to be restrained and repressed when it comes to sex especialy women so I think that's what JJ was refering to. The key seems to be finding partners that you trust to bring your fantasy to life, comunicating your feelings and expectations to them before hand, otherwise you are leaving to much to chance. On a personal note I think looking at it as an EXPERIENCE that you want to have in no way defines the good person you are. Just my 2 cents.
Advanced Wordsmith
I have the same fantasy and the same problem. Most people look at me like i've lost my mind if i tell them this is something I want. So i have just stayed away from the whole idea. But I really want to try it, I love sex and can't seem to ever get enough... So a gang bang would solve my problem, at least in my mind.
Quote by Tiff_69
I have the same fantasy and the same problem. Most people look at me like i've lost my mind if i tell them this is something I want. So i have just stayed away from the whole idea. But I really want to try it, I love sex and can't seem to ever get enough... So a gang bang would solve my problem, at least in my mind.
Bless you! ! There are times i feel a total weirdo thinking about it . And the feedback i get is always negative. But to be honest with you even writing about it makes me incredibly excited.
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Quote by TracyCum
Bless you! ! There are times i feel a total weirdo thinking about it . And the feedback i get is always negative. But to be honest with you even writing about it makes me incredibly excited.
Yea, I understand that. Knowing someone else out there feels the same is kind of nice.
Rainbow Warrior
DP can be awkward so often that a lot of people just give up trying to make it work. I have several guys at my disposal, and we are all close, so its become a semi-regular thing and we have it down to an art. I've only had one or two true gang-bangs, and they were incredible experiences, but not something I want to happen frequently. Don't ever be ashamed of your urges! If its a recurring fantasy, try to make it happen. Its just not that easy to make it work successfully until you find the right partners. But when you do, its awesome!
Quote by BethanyFrasier
DP can be awkward so often that a lot of people just give up trying to make it work. I have several guys at my disposal, and we are all close, so its become a semi-regular thing and we have it down to an art. I've only had one or two true gang-bangs, and they were incredible experiences, but not something I want to happen frequently. Don't ever be ashamed of your urges! If its a recurring fantasy, try to make it happen. Its just not that easy to make it work successfully until you find the right partners. But when you do, its awesome!
It's something i think of way to often yes. Thank you girls for giving me confidence and making me feel good about my sexuality. I would love to hear about your experiences with this as much as I want to know how did you manage to make it happen
Cryptic Vigilante
I don't think it's a weird fantasy at all, in fact I believe it's quite congruent with the raw/natural urges and desires of women. From the way I conceive it, feeling desired and having a 'male entity' submitting to them is a huge component of women's primitive sexual nature. A single man can fulfill these impulses to a certain extent, but when stripped-down from all the moral guidelines imposed on us by society since the last few millennia, gangbangs are fairly representative of these yearnings, especially when represented to their uttermost degree; it's like having the entire tribe yielding to your desires.
My own 'ultimate fantasy' isn't all that dissimilar from that actually. The way I usually describe it, is being with only one woman while surrounded by a large throng of healthy, muscular, dominant men (50+), and yet this woman would rely solely on me to satisfy her physical cravings while all the other males jerk off to us in complete envy, hoping that I'd have a moment of weakness to take the relay (which wouldn't happen, of course). Then all those males would ejaculate on this woman as I keep fucking her. For men, being the 'top male' is quite a strong natural inclination, plus I'm a huge cum fanatic, so yeah, this is quite an appealing fantasy for me.
You have to put these fantasies in context though, and realize to which degree they'd be feasible without endangering yourself or your reputation. As was mentioned previously, you'd be rather vulnerable in such a situation, being surrounded by a bunch of horny males. Although having 'no control' might be appealing to you initially, you have to realize that some of these men could possibly do things you might not find all that pleasant. What if some of them start being violent? What if they want to insert 3 dicks in your ass simultaneously? What if they want you to eat your own excrement?
Your reputation would likely be affected by such an experience too. Having sex with many partners isn't exactly an 'intimate' setting, and quite a few persons would initially be aware of your sexual deeds. Plus, keeping a certain level of confidentiality within the small group of people involved would be a rather difficult thing to manage, especially since such sexual feats are usually things that men love to boast about.
In other words, there's nothing inherently wrong about this fantasy, but you have to be aware of the risks involved if you ever start considering it seriously in real life. Some fantasies are better left at just that: fantasies. Myself, I don't have any intentions to accomplish my aforementioned fantasy, and I'm totally at ease with that. Simply 'fantasizing' about something can be thoroughly fulfilling in and of itself at times, plus I've found some alternatives to play around this fantasy without actually being confronted to the negative consequences that would likely happen if I was to perform it for real.
My own 'ultimate fantasy' isn't all that dissimilar from that actually. The way I usually describe it, is being with only one woman while surrounded by a large throng of healthy, muscular, dominant men (50+), and yet this woman would rely solely on me to satisfy her physical cravings while all the other males jerk off to us in complete envy, hoping that I'd have a moment of weakness to take the relay (which wouldn't happen, of course). Then all those males would ejaculate on this woman as I keep fucking her. For men, being the 'top male' is quite a strong natural inclination, plus I'm a huge cum fanatic, so yeah, this is quite an appealing fantasy for me.
You have to put these fantasies in context though, and realize to which degree they'd be feasible without endangering yourself or your reputation. As was mentioned previously, you'd be rather vulnerable in such a situation, being surrounded by a bunch of horny males. Although having 'no control' might be appealing to you initially, you have to realize that some of these men could possibly do things you might not find all that pleasant. What if some of them start being violent? What if they want to insert 3 dicks in your ass simultaneously? What if they want you to eat your own excrement?
Your reputation would likely be affected by such an experience too. Having sex with many partners isn't exactly an 'intimate' setting, and quite a few persons would initially be aware of your sexual deeds. Plus, keeping a certain level of confidentiality within the small group of people involved would be a rather difficult thing to manage, especially since such sexual feats are usually things that men love to boast about.
In other words, there's nothing inherently wrong about this fantasy, but you have to be aware of the risks involved if you ever start considering it seriously in real life. Some fantasies are better left at just that: fantasies. Myself, I don't have any intentions to accomplish my aforementioned fantasy, and I'm totally at ease with that. Simply 'fantasizing' about something can be thoroughly fulfilling in and of itself at times, plus I've found some alternatives to play around this fantasy without actually being confronted to the negative consequences that would likely happen if I was to perform it for real.
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
DP can be awkward so often that a lot of people just give up trying to make it work. I have several guys at my disposal, and we are all close, so its become a semi-regular thing and we have it down to an art. I've only had one or two true gang-bangs, and they were incredible experiences, but not something I want to happen frequently. Don't ever be ashamed of your urges! If its a recurring fantasy, try to make it happen. Its just not that easy to make it work successfully until you find the right partners. But when you do, its awesome!
Finding partners doesn't come into a true gangbang, in my opinion. That would be an orgy.
That is the worst part about it, yet the best part for some. The person being fucked is a piece of meat. I'm sorry if that offends but it's true. Then again, a gay gangbang might be more hardcore.
You get no say in who fucks you or how many times they fuck you. As I've said, I've seen a guy close to tears, I've also seen a power bottom guy exhaust a room full of guys and still want more!
My only concern would be diving into a gangbang with little or no experience.
The Linebacker
I've both taken part in and witnessed gangbangs. It was a somewhat common occurrence in college. In every case I saw, the girl or girls asked if there were guys interested in doing it or the guys asked the girl(s) if they were interested to which they responded an eager yes. I guess girls do it because they can, either to fulfill a fantasy or just because they can orgasm over and over again. Some girls like to be the center of the show and what better way to put on a show. I'm sure the vast majority of guys would let girls gangbang them if it were physically possible and they could get volunteers. What guy wouldn't want to have 6 girls pull a train on him? Of course I'm thinking in 'straight' terms.
Chuckanator
I was invited to a swingers party once and mostly observed. I did a bit of heavy petting but couldn't get into it because it was not my cup of tea. Most were older and I was not attracted to any of the girls. There was one that looked cute but she was occupied the whole time for obvious reasons. Didn't want to stand in line. There was a gang bang room and a redhead was with four or five guys. It just seemed icky to me. She had cum running off her cheek. I didn't go back.
I guess I am just in love with love. I like the romance and exclusiveness of a loving relationship. I just can't get into sex as a recreation or team sport. Just me. Not judging others.
I guess I am just in love with love. I like the romance and exclusiveness of a loving relationship. I just can't get into sex as a recreation or team sport. Just me. Not judging others.
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Quote by Buz
I've both taken part in and witnessed gangbangs. It was a somewhat common occurrence in college. In every case I saw, the girl or girls asked if there were guys interested in doing it or the guys asked the girl(s) if they were interested to which they responded an eager yes. I guess girls do it because they can, either to fulfill a fantasy or just because they can orgasm over and over again. Some girls like to be the center of the show and what better way to put on a show. I'm sure the vast majority of guys would let girls gangbang them if it were physically possible and they could get volunteers. What guy wouldn't want to have 6 girls pull a train on him? Of course I'm thinking in 'straight' terms.
Love the last line.
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Quote by LadyAnnWest
No, not my cup of tea. However I have a friend who has the same desires as you, so I don't think it's unusual at all
Lady Ann I have more than once or twice and I loved it. However I know it is not the thing for every girl.
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Quote by TracyCum
Well I heard that before from my friends warning me about it but can't understand why. Can you help me with that?
Well I can only speak about my own feelings about it, everyone's different. With some things, I tend to be turned on by certain things that I'm intimidated of or scared of in real life. I guess because in your mind it's a safe place to explore it.
For me with the gangbang thing (and really any real-sex with other men in this sense) I would much prefer it to be like a glory hole situation; not seeing the actual man - it's just a cock. Or being blindfolded (not being by myself though, too dangerous in my view); but I have a Dom and if that's something he wanted and I wanted to (it's not, and if it was, he would have to be present in the room to oversee it), in my terms it would need to be 'me not seeing them' because for me personally, well it gets too personal and I don't want that. I'm the kind of girl that, in reality, I need to either be in love with and/or feel natural submission towards the man I'm spreading my legs for. I'm bi yes, but it's purely sexual attraction; I've never had romantic feelings for another girl, or fallen in love with another girl. So sex can just be sex with girls...but for men, it's different for me. That's why, if I was in a gangbang in real life...just myself with no Dom overseeing it, and 'seeing' all the men...it goes too far for me in that I can't handle the mentality/emotions of it. For me, it can't be a 'wham bam thank you maam' thing...I'm not saying I'd fall in love with the guys haha fuck no...but because I'm not in that 'space' with them, my head can't handle it. I know this is gonna sound bad (and this is just me now) but I'd feel like I was , even if it was consensual. (operative word being "feel"). That's just me anyways........
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Quote by Buz
I've both taken part in and witnessed gangbangs. It was a somewhat common occurrence in college. In every case I saw, the girl or girls asked if there were guys interested in doing it or the guys asked the girl(s) if they were interested to which they responded an eager yes. I guess girls do it because they can, either to fulfill a fantasy or just because they can orgasm over and over again. Some girls like to be the center of the show and what better way to put on a show. I'm sure the vast majority of guys would let girls gangbang them if it were physically possible and they could get volunteers. What guy wouldn't want to have 6 girls pull a train on him? Of course I'm thinking in 'straight' terms.
Oh wow. Did you or the other guys wear a condom? Were the other guys attractrive/ hot too?
Was the girl hot?
What happened afterwards?
You don't have to tell me. I'm just curious.