I have a constant desire to be in a situation with multiple partners at the same time. I have tried to test the waters doing dp a couple of times but I still feel unsatisfied. I am a bit ashamed of it but I can't stop thinking about it.
I wanted to know if anyone has ever tried it or at least if anyone has the same urge as me.
Please don't make fun of me over this. ..
No, not my cup of tea. However I have a friend who has the same desires as you, so I don't think it's unusual at all
I love the fantasy of it, and lovve porn of it...but I know without a doubt the reality (for me) would not be the same at all; and I don't mean to be dramatic, but it would probably end with me curled in a ball, crying in the corner. Way too much. For me, fantasy is where it will stay.
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Check out my latest story: Drawn to Addy - Part 2 I think there are all sorts of things about which a woman can have fantasies that are probably not such fun when it comes to the reality. Multiple sex partners is something that teases me a bit, but I suspect I would not only not enjoy it but would feel just dreadful about myself afterwards -- ashamed and more.
I tried a few times yes but I found myself wanting more. I tend to image how it would be if more people were involved.
I think the idea of multiple partners and dp is a real mind blower. I have also had this fantasy for the longes time but I have never done anything about it.
I think it is one that is hard to fulfill, I wouldn't do it with a serious partner as it might destroy the relationship but I don't know any of my casual partners who might be happy to try this. I suppose I could go to a club or something like that but that seems tacky and for me (in my personal situation) is not an option.
I would say, and this is only my opinion, that if you can solve the sort of problems I have described then why not. If I could, if it were possible for me to find myself in a room with two or more guys (or guys and girls) I would most assuredly try it out.
But the idea of no control is the most arousing part of it. Well it might be my libido talking and I should take your advice and stay away from pursuing it
Not a woman either but, maybe trying it in a mild bondage setting might help (safe word ). As to being curled up in a ball and ashamed, that's the social norm talking, we are all taught to be restrained and repressed when it comes to sex especialy women so I think that's what JJ was refering to. The key seems to be finding partners that you trust to bring your fantasy to life, comunicating your feelings and expectations to them before hand, otherwise you are leaving to much to chance. On a personal note I think looking at it as an EXPERIENCE that you want to have in no way defines the good person you are. Just my 2 cents.
I have the same fantasy and the same problem. Most people look at me like i've lost my mind if i tell them this is something I want. So i have just stayed away from the whole idea. But I really want to try it, I love sex and can't seem to ever get enough... So a gang bang would solve my problem, at least in my mind.
DP can be awkward so often that a lot of people just give up trying to make it work. I have several guys at my disposal, and we are all close, so its become a semi-regular thing and we have it down to an art. I've only had one or two true gang-bangs, and they were incredible experiences, but not something I want to happen frequently. Don't ever be ashamed of your urges! If its a recurring fantasy, try to make it happen. Its just not that easy to make it work successfully until you find the right partners. But when you do, its awesome!
I've both taken part in and witnessed gangbangs. It was a somewhat common occurrence in college. In every case I saw, the girl or girls asked if there were guys interested in doing it or the guys asked the girl(s) if they were interested to which they responded an eager yes. I guess girls do it because they can, either to fulfill a fantasy or just because they can orgasm over and over again. Some girls like to be the center of the show and what better way to put on a show. I'm sure the vast majority of guys would let girls gangbang them if it were physically possible and they could get volunteers. What guy wouldn't want to have 6 girls pull a train on him? Of course I'm thinking in 'straight' terms.
I was invited to a swingers party once and mostly observed. I did a bit of heavy petting but couldn't get into it because it was not my cup of tea. Most were older and I was not attracted to any of the girls. There was one that looked cute but she was occupied the whole time for obvious reasons. Didn't want to stand in line. There was a gang bang room and a redhead was with four or five guys. It just seemed icky to me. She had cum running off her cheek. I didn't go back.
I guess I am just in love with love. I like the romance and exclusiveness of a loving relationship. I just can't get into sex as a recreation or team sport. Just me. Not judging others.
I would love to hear the story too. And I probably will share mine if I manage to do it. Being the centre of attention is definitely a turn on and being able to get off so many times is too. I also have a thing for cum play so there is that too. I dreamt about it last night too. ..