How would you react if your significant other told you that he'd like you to have sex with another man?
Would it be a turn on or turn off? Would you be offended? Would you do it?
Good question. Does it matter if he wants to watch, or if he wants to just hear about it?
For me it would totally depend on the relationship I had with my significant other.
With certain boyfriends I've had, I would have LOVED to do something like this (especially now when I look back at the dynamic of the relationship).
I've never had a boyfriend who has ever been remotely close to being this open-minded though.. even those lucky boyfriends that I involved in MFF threesomes. Jealousies have always been involved.
I'd probably want to explore the fantasy with my boyfriend first, and understand his motivations or reasons behind the desire to see me do this.
I would be 100% game if I knew that the boyfriend asking me wasn't going to be my future husband, but more of a casual or time-limited dating relationship, but if I had life-partner ideas about him, I'd probably need a better understanding of his fantasy. I definitely wouldn't rule it out though. I'd just approach with more caution and consideration.
I have a female friend that did this to fulfill her bf's fantasy (several times), and was hoping to forge a future with this guy, and it basically backfired on her, and even though it was his fantasy, in the end he said he couldn't really see her as 'the mother of his kids'... Not sure if it was a direct cause of her fulfilling this fantasy for him, but it still haunts her a little to this day.
Not woman but had a point to throw in there, the dynamic is completely different however if a girl asks a guy for this. Most guys are kind of territorial, to some degree, and I had a girlfriend that mentioned us bringing another guy in once or twice to change things up, and I totally said no, because I felt insulted, she made me feel like I wasn't fulfilling my end of the bargain.
If I was asked to, I might think that there was something else in behind.
Maybe he was testing my loyalty to him or what not.
If he wanted to watch, I would probably not worry about making the wrong answer.
Besides if I was to be with someone else I don't think I would want to talk about it later.
Some things you want to keep to yourself even if it's the other person in the relationship prompting you to do it.
But all in all, would feel weird to be asked, and it would also matter who the other person was. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone I didn't feel attracted to.
(things put out right shouldn't offend people)
It's something that my partner and I have been toying with the idea of off and on for a while and I am really struggling with how I feel about it.
The logical part of my brain understands that it is only sex, but the rest of me knows that I can't do something like this with out emotions eventually getting involved.
So, do I do it as a 'gift' of love and risk destroying a relationship with someone I can see as my life partner? Or readjust my thinking?
I did have a boyfriend who wanted this to happen and I just could not understand why he would want that, and he never explained it real well. His reason was that he knew I would enjoy it, he wanted me to do things I would have fun doing, and it would turn him on to hear about it later. I couldn't respect him after that, so I cut the cord.
I'd say HURRAY! I even already know who so all I need is a plane ticket and I'm ready to go pick him up at the Airport!!!
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Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! Only one question. Who is doing the choosing?
kinda late in the thread, but this one sparked my interest.
I have told my wife that I want her to have sex with another man. Me there, of course. She had never told me anything about her wanting to before hand, but once i told her, she told me that it was one of her first fantasies she had after we met. Hearing that only fueled the fire.
My wife and I are completely open and honest in our marriage. She tells me her desires, I tell her mine. We have yet to go thru with it, I'm deployed, but we have had some light play with others in the past. All girls up until i deployed, and she has been fingered once by a 28yo at a party and a 23yo in the back of a bar. She is a smokin hot 38yo, BTW.
Here's the thing guys. Just like you want to fuck other women, you significant other want to fuck other men! Wether you like it or not, there is no denying it.
The problem is simple. It's a lack of trust! You do not trust your relationship with her, and you think that because another guy sticks his dick in her, she is going to either think less of you or she'll leave you. If either of those happen, your relationship was in trouble long before the other guy drops his pants
Well I am married, and I have a bf. Yes my hubby knows about him, in fact we have had a threesome (refers to my story Joplin). My husband also has a gf. We don't watch each other or give details. What he does is his business, and same with me. He does knows a few things I have done, but we do not go into great details. I think it depends on the couple, and how they feel about it all.
mine asked me and at first i was offended but after a few discussions and I agreed and he loves watching other guys fuck me
That's something I have to discuss with my boyfriend.
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