Some guys get harder than others, especially the second time around. I find it disappointing, and do not enjoy it as much if he is not rock hard. How do you other ladies feel about fucking, or sucking a limp cock?
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My present lover does not have that problem
Never experienced it as of yet but I doubt it would be enjoyable.
It will get hard shortly... and it would just slip out all the time.. annoying for both parts.
Being a guy I can say that I have tried to give a guy a blow job while he was soft or not very hard and I didn't enjoy it and although I sucked very hard he never did get hard. I then put my clothes on and went home. Never did see him again...
When a guy tries to have sex with me and isn't fully hard or maybe a semi is all he can get it just means he is impatient and probably will not last long. It's usually an older guy thing and of course it can be an issue with age. Viagra does work but takes time. Usually if a guy has issues it is a one time event for me.
I don't mind sucking a cock that is semi soft - limp as long as it gets rock hard. But I am not going to sit there and suck one that isn't going to get hard for me.. That isn't fun. But I do love to feel a cock grow hard in my mouth so if I know it's going to get hard. That's fun..
I don't mind having sex with a semi soft cock.. I've never done limp. But having his touch simply rubbing along my lips and against my clit is a turn on.. I really like it.. I much rather be fucked with a hard throbbing cock but I get a tease out of the soft touch against my clit and if done right I can orgasm. So he doesn't need to be hard...
I know this because I love when I'm being fucked by a guy and once he comes still fucks me as he grows soft and I can feel it press against my clit.. It's fun!
Anxiety,may be a factor in this. For whatever reason he might not be able to relax and get comfortable. I experienced this when i became involved with a married woman and we went to a motel for the first time. Took a little time for me to settle in, relax and enjoy the moment.
This happened to me once after I got divorced - after a year's abstinence. I think it was a sort of reverse retrospective guilt trip and sometimes nowadays if I worry about it it can happen again but if I keep on pleasuring my partner by more foreplay hearing her response soon turns me back on and everything is fine. I am an older guy but always end up fully hard and the bonus is, although not as often I can do it every day and for longer than a lot of younger guys, (this is a statistical fact I believe). I can still manage a second time around after a fairly longish interval but still during the same session and strangely that can be more passionate and faster. However I am a little old man (albeit a dirty one) so the days of 6 times a night have gone but as I say there are compensations and it might comfort the younger guys to know that "it doesn't go away".
for me limp or semi hard cock i like sucking it but noooo for penetration
Theoratically/and Practically .. it needs at least 70% hardness to achieve pnetration ...imminantly curable by medications of course ...
I love sucking a cock that is soft, I love the feel of it getting hard in my mouth.
But fucking a cock that is not hard would be like eating chicken that is not cooked...................No Thanks!!
I'd rather gnaw my own leg off!
I don't like having sex with a semi-limp cock. It makes me wonder if I'm somehow not arousing him enough, or in the right ways, and in the back of my mind, I'm wondering when he'll lose too much erection to continue to fuck me. For me, there's a baseline that I want, when it comes to sex, and that's that all the parts actually perform, and I can concentrate on my pleasure and his pleasure, not whether or not he can physically persevere through the act itself.
Would you want to fuck a women who was dry and not turned on?
Trying to get a soft one inside me is just too much trouble and kills the mood. I don't mind sucking a soft one because I like to feel it get hard in my mouth.
Hubby can sometimes have a not so hard time the second time around. He bought a cock ring,and it works great!!! I love the way it brings his balls up tighter against my ass anyways. Not to mention, if your guy is having a hard time getting hard, that's where toys can be fun and satisfying when used with a loving partner.
There's no point in trying. If CPR (blow job) doesn't work, that's pretty much it!
I have tried to have sex with him when we was half hard. It was one night that I was feeling extra amorous and had him going for round threeor four in a row and by that time his poor dick was tired and just couldnt stand tall again. I finally gave up amd just let him finger me instead.
As for blow jobs, i love to start when he is still limp. I love feeling him get hard in my mouth, especially when he goes from limp to rock hard in 0.3 seconds. Love it ;)
The harder the better for fucking, but it's kinda fun to suck on one that's just starting to get hard.
the only time this happens to me is perhaps he has cum once or twice and needs rest, bless him lol, but i want more we may just have him inside me as we gently rock, moce, writh, touch caress kiss fondle, sorry getting carried away there, mmmm. He soon gets a stiffy believe me mmm nice xxx
Its nearly impossible unless you are already sloppy-wet and just stuff it in, which is no fun. I can usually get them hard by sucking, but I was with a guy once who was so nervous, he couldn't get it up no matter what. We tried everything and he just got more nervous because he couldn't get it in me, and he desperately wanted to.
It does take a bit of effort. Sucking helped sometimes. IF we managed to get in, in we could usually get it to work. I have managed to cum off just with the effort of trying. He misses out then.
There have been a few instances where he has been too pissed and nothing worked then. They were the bad old days. Not now.
It doesn't get hard enough to achieve penetration, so a semi hard cock isn't good for sex. The only way I can fully take my man in orally is if he is semi erect, but it makes me feel like a failure if he doesn't go all the way hard from my oral ministrations.
Harder the better.....
I enjoy sucking a limp cock and feeling it get hard in my mouth but my puss only enjoys rock hard cement like cocks
