I read every message accompanying a FR, and if none is offered, I'm less likely to accept. Tell me WHY you want to be my friend. Tell me you plan to (or have) read my stories. Offer a willingness to converse or interact and how you'd like to see that happening. The more info, the better! Flattery always helps too! lol
Separate (preamble) messages are okay, but kinda unnecessary if you say what you need to say in the FR.
Unfortunately for her I only dispatch dick pics as per request ;)
Truthful and to the point
When I send friend requests, I just put "what's up, I'm Laura, I'm 23 years young. So, are we in business? We down to clown?" and then I send that.
I don't mind a blank friend request. Sometimes I'll check guys account before I accept but mainly I'll accept and if chat doesn't flow easily then I'll delete from friend list. The delete option is there for a reason. Use it.
If you’re immediately sexually aggressive I’m not going to accept. If you engage with my interests I will.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
I have not been on Lush that long so I may completely wrong.
But I expect the person has read my profile.
I expect that either their message or their profile would tell me something about themselves.
Why would I want to be friends with you? If you can find no reason I may not be able to either.
But different than some of my sisters I do not need a picture of your cock. If Operational they all work fine, within limits.