My rebound is married (yet seperated) and his wife lives three hours away. I am pretty certain his wife has no idea who I am.
Rebound and I are just good friends with sex thrown in. I honestly thought he broke up with a "partner" whenever he mentioned her. It was "My ex partner and I..." Six weeks after fucking I see mail on the table addressed to "Mrs A B Rebound"
It was a huge shock to know I was fucking a married man who has kids.
I felt a bit bad but then I thought well she lives three hours away and he is here and willing why not.
(Since OP messeged me and asked what turns me on about it: It does nothing for me. Rebound has been seperated for 2 years so he can do what he likes even though legally he is still married).