I know a lot of women have "faked" before. (You know who you are)
How would you feel if you found out your husband/boyfriend/partner faked?
Is it worse if a guy does it? Would it make you feel bad?
I always check the condom. ;)
Lol, Id love to know what makes Milik so differant, but no It wouldn't bother me if a guy did fake it. It just means he wants me to feel good about it. Hehe, still not sure how he could pull it off. As for me, hey there are just times when I know Im not going to cum no matter what the guy does. That doesn't mean Im not enjoying it. If hearing me moan and groan gets him off or makes him smile, what's the harm.
I will say that not every guy knows how to use his fingers and somtimes it's better to fake an O then try to explain it....again.
I will admit, I have faked it when I was younger. The times that I did was usually related to hooking up with someone where alcohol was involved, and I knew I wasn't going to come and just wanted to end the night...
It only backfired once, when one guy thought he was such a sexual lothario after my faking-techniques, that he kept GOING to see how many orgasms I could have. It was the funniest night ever... I think I faked it 5 times, before I finally just told him to stop. He thought he was quite the man the next morning... bragged to his friends all weekend.
I don't fake it anymore. I can't be bothered. I have spoken up and tried to help instruct a few guys on what would help get me off, but not everyone takes instruction successfully.
If I found out a guy faked it, I don't think I'd be particularly devastated. I don't think faking orgasms is really needed by either men or women, but in some cases, people feel the need to have a formal ending to sex.
There are many cases where someone is drunk or on recreational drugs and having an orgasm just isn't going to happen.
It's not the end the world. That's what morning sex is for!
why give anyone the satisfaction of thinking they did great , when it/they lacked??
I faked it once .... and never again .... because he thought he did wonderful, and did EXACTLY the same thing the next time to my dismay and disappointment ... and I learned a huge lesson.
Van
It depends.
If it was with a one night stand, the chances are if he was faking it, Im probably busy faking it too...
If it was with someone in a long-term relationship, Id probably feel a bit miffed that he just didnt tell me. I understand that sometimes sex just needs to be sex, you dont have to orgasm to make it good, I expect him to understand that sometimes I dont want to come and just want to be with him. It goes both ways, I would understand if he told me the same.
The point is, the most important factor in a relationship is honesty, faking orgasms comes down to lying.
Since my Radical Abdominal Lymphectomy I don't ejaculat anything. I cum completly dry. In general, I recover very quickly, it wasn't obvious that I faked it.
Most women seem to like it. It is just a fact of life to me.
I've never faked it and never had a partner who has. I never even considered that a man might until this thread.
Would I be destroyed, no I don't think so. And of course I have faked it also. But that when I was much younger and just getting into this thing called sex.
I did not really know my body, like I do today. I have not been with many men that did not want to give me as much pleasure as they were receiving. A little help from both is a benefit for tonight and maybe the next and for the sisters he will meet in the future.
But then each on of us has their switch to neverland with a different pattern.
As generally a bareback rider there is not much in doubt!
Let me let you in on something I read and have been told.
Ejaculation = Orgasm
isn't always what it seem to be. SOme men can ejaculate without orgasming and some orgasm without ejaculating.
And Im a bit along with Bunnym though some men know how to really control themselves when they come, some don't and there's nothing like that shivering body against you as they orgasm. hihi
Now to the part, would I get offended if he faked?
Yes.
Would I get disappointed think I'd did something wrong, go around thinking Im not hot enough, good enough and whatever?
Yes I would.
There's no such thing as I wouldn't do that. No matter what he told me, that is how I react to not being able to please a man through out.
Sure I can settle for a no, but in my mind I will still have the mantra going that I had did something wrong. About to burst into tears and want to run away.
(and then for some reason feel the need to comfort him cause he must feel the same as I even though it's me it's something wrong with)
Though, it'd pass for the next time we tried and he would compliment everything good I done and how hot and all I am.
Fake an orgasm? Hell no, well at least not yet. I've never had to. If someone faked an orgasm on me? I'd definitely be hurt.
Can a guy fake it? Why would anyone want to fake something as wonderful as an orgasm?
Well when I just joined the sex game, I faked a couple of times, but then I felt bad when the guy went with other women and the girl put him on serious spotlight. Well now since I'm an outspoken gal, I give the man pointers. Even though some guys spite me for it, others have been really happy and they've gotten a second round (or more) and got better results.
I am mostly concerned with the woman getting her pleasure and if that would mean I went a bit long and needed to fake it, I would. It really makes me horny and aroused to help a woman get of, as many times as she needs.
Back in the day, I've faked it with my boyfriend several years back (the sex was lousy). I speak up now when the guy isn't getting me off.
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