How important is it for you to have a deep, personal emotional attachment to the person you're having sex with? Would you rather make love to someone or simply just suck, fuck or whatever?
For me, sex would never satisfying with the emotional attachment, the relationship between my lover and myself. Sex without it would be without meaning, too transitory for me.
I wouldn’t say I need a deep connection, but there’s got to be some type of emotional connection. Sex with strangers is not my thing.
I don't need any emotional connection w/ guy during sex. It's just sex.
Emotional attachments are nice but I can enjoy sex for its own sake.
The best sex is with someone who truly loves you. Sensual or nasty, whatever. Nothing compares.
It's like a unicorn though, so yeah. I like sex. The good kind, if the best isn't an option.
I need emotional attachment. When I was young I always wanted emotional attachment during sex, though I have had partners where I just physically wanted to get off. Now days I only want to have sex if there is emotional attachment. I don't want to just fuck around.
I have to like someone. I wont have sex with someone I don't have some sort of positive feeling for. As a rule I have a relationship/friendship with the men I've been with. I've also gotten carried away at times, and had sex with guys I don't know well. I have to say I like both... a lot, but would say I usually stick to guys I know pretty well.
My emotional attachment to my ex-husband became so vile that since my divorce I have needed sex but not the baggage that goes with it.
Very important to me, I’ve had both and the time I had sex WITHOUT any emotional attachment was not satisfying at all