My wife had her ovaries removed due to a cancer scare 10 years ago. Since then she seems to have lost her desire for sex, her fantasies, her dreams of sex and even her thoughts of it. She says she loves me dearly as much as she did 35 years ago but the thoughts never enter her mind. Her body doesn't secret moisture for intercourse and her opening is so closed she hurts when I d try to enter her.
Been to doctors and they say this is normal and she has lotion but no hormones due to cancer susceptibility in the family.
What the hell can I do except what I have been doing for 10 years ---- just put up with it and accept no sex.