DP's are actually enjoyable and fun. Trust is the main thing and teamwork =) If the guys are scared of their rods touching they aren't up for the challenge. I also think it takes a lot of the guys thinking they are going to be the one that sets the pace. I dont know if its male ego or macho kind of thing.
Double penetration is nothing to be nervous about, just make sure you're experience both vaginally and anally with one guy and having two guys at the same time who know what they are doing should be a breeze. I haven't had a single bad experience with double penetration at all with either people I know or people I don't know.
I get wet enough that my pussy juice runs down onto my asshole, no need for any lube. DP'd? I love it.
Reading all these posts makes me want to give it another shot!
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X
i've never done it. but its something that i kind of want to do