He knows, not that I need his permission
My husband knows I use Lush, but I only use it to post my writing, and talk to readers and other writers. My husband also has an account on here, but he never actually uses it because he doesn't write. He's read a little, but that's all he's done.
My husband knows I'm on here and aprroves!
yes, he knows we often read the stories together.
I've been a member of lush, on and off, for maybe 2yrs.
My husband as far as I'm aware doesn't know that I am a member, and as far as I'm concerned, I certain;y won't be telling him!
When I come in to visit, this is "my" time, time for me to relax, meet new people, indulge in "my" fantasies, as and if I please, I don't wont to have to re-enact everything that he finds sexually exciting in my own bedroom.....Or wherever!
If I've become more sexually aware, interesting, or experimental due to my membership here, then we both win. But being on here is for "me" no-one else!
I don't have a spouse to tell or not. but both my sisters know about the site, know I write erotica and have even read some of the tamer stuff.
Right now, its a secret. He knows that I do watch porn, though, he doesn't know that I have written some....
Surprisingly, though, he has written a few stories - and they're surprisingly good.
I don't need his permission.
