Quote by Dancing_Doll
Hot. Definitely.
I like it quite a bit rougher than what you described and if the guy knows what he's doing, it's incredible.
You definitely have to tell the guy how intense/dominant you want him to get though, otherwise they will always underplay.
Quote by Kimasa
However I wouldn't want to tell him how intense I wanted him to be. That would mean I would be getting him to do what I want and have some control, which would ruin it.
Quote by Dancing_Doll
Are you talking about more 'in the moment', or even beforehand - like in a general sense when you're talking about what you're into sexually.
I can see it being off putting to set limits and levels once you're already into things. I've always talked about my idea of rough/dominant sex way beforehand - like as part of general sexual-conversation.
I've found that guys wouldn't think of pushing into rough-sex terrain (outside maybe a little hair-pulling, ass-slapping) unless they knew the girl wanted it - I think they're aware that it could really freak a girl out that wasn't into that kind of thing.
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Quote by Buz
Sometimes my wife is in the mood for that. I have become very good at reading her, if not she'll tell me to get rougher.
Sometime she likes to turn it around and be the dominate rough one. And then there are times we like to be mutually rough. Changing it up works for me, it's all good! She has never held back or been shy about what she wanted to do and I've always loved that about her. I have discovered that if we are out somewhere, especially at a dress up social function, that I find the right opportunity to sneak in a very discrete feel and tell her (very aggressively) that I am going to fuck the hell out of her when we get home, that by the time we get home she is so horny and worked up that she is like an obsessed tigress. Awesome!