His manners were impeccable, never late; he opens doors for me, compliments me on whatever I ware, has a wicked sense of humour and is great compnay. He's smart and intelligent, and although balding, shaves his head like Bruce Willis/Sean Connery, and has pale blue eyes that twinkle in a cheeky way but are sometimes rather sad. I found the whole package sexy and alluring, and he got me into bed very quickly (my mum would certainly say)
He's very passionate and although he admitted he uses viagra because he finds maintaining an erection difficult from time to time, he was totally honest about it; he certainly rocked my boat.
So whats the problem you may ask, well he made it clear he dos'nt want a relationship beyond what we have, he has Children and Grandchildren and enjoys his life just as it is, I did wonder if he was married at first, but after visiting his place there is no semblance of a female hand in his life.
So for me I think older men are very attractive, but you have to understand many single men over a certain age are likely to be settled in careers and outlook and most likely have a family that make spontaneous liasons difficult, and in his case went through an acrimonous divorce that has left him rather shell shocked. So they are unlikely to want more than a casual relationship, but I guess that could be said about any man/woman.
I thought at first 55 maybe far too old for me, but he's changed my opinion. However i'm sure there are men out there that are just as attractive to me, of my own age group, i've just never met any yet.
or at least with my honey, he's 26 years older than I am and it's been wonderful. I don't think it has to really do with age, I think it's the maturity level of the two peoples involved. I wouldn't say they are better or not. You'll find emotional douchebags anywhere. It's hard to find honesty and the actual intent involved, and yes it can be a little bit scary with older men, since they have more experience in life then someone younger would. More experience is not a bad thing, it's a learning opportunity and just because your younger doesn't mean you have nothing to offer. I didn't seek out an older man, neither did he( someone younger) we found each other by chance and fell inlove.