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Yes. And at moment u realize that the connection was never real.
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Do you ever get jealous when a guy on lush flirts with someone and you thought you had something heading?
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Yes. And at moment u realize that the connection was never real.
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Quote by BelleduJour
Of course! I think it's only natural but at the same time, you have to remember where you are and to tread carefully on sites like this in terms of getting too emotionally wrapped up in someone (although there are always the exceptions to the rule). Everyone wants to think they are more 'special' than the next stud or bimbo on here and to see that that is not necessarily the case can be an uncomfortable reality check. Jealousy is just part of the dance between men and women.
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You sure as hell shouldn't get jealous unless she available so you can actually be with them. If communication is just on the internet, then you gotta know the relationship isn't a normal relationship. You may talk everyday, know very intimate things, but it's nothing more. You can't actually be with them and therefore, there really isn't anything to be jealous of, unless it is really just about talking. Or do you mean you know the guy from your everyday life and you saw him flirting with someone here? I guess that is not clear.
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although i replied to this post already, but i would like to write more.
it's pretty typical on lush that i get hurt if somone i know gives another person more importance then they give me.
we had a thing.. it lasted a minute/days.. and thats it.
if you were true to them, they WILL try to contact you. ( personal expereince) but then it's your decission to give them another chance.
i give them chance.. always have.. and will keep giving.. but i know my self.. there is always a moment then i actually get over them.. and after THAT point.. they can't reach me.
it's pretty typical on lush that i get hurt if somone i know gives another person more importance then they give me.
we had a thing.. it lasted a minute/days.. and thats it.
if you were true to them, they WILL try to contact you. ( personal expereince) but then it's your decission to give them another chance.
i give them chance.. always have.. and will keep giving.. but i know my self.. there is always a moment then i actually get over them.. and after THAT point.. they can't reach me.
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although i replied to this post already, but i would like to write more.
it's pretty typical on lush that i get hurt if somone i know gives another person more importance then they give me.
we had a thing.. it lasted a minute/days.. and thats it.
if you were true to them, they WILL try to contact you. ( personal expereince) but then it's your decission to give them another chance.
i give them chance.. always have.. and will keep giving.. but i know my self.. there is always a moment then i actually get over them.. and after THAT point.. they can't reach me.
it's pretty typical on lush that i get hurt if somone i know gives another person more importance then they give me.
we had a thing.. it lasted a minute/days.. and thats it.
if you were true to them, they WILL try to contact you. ( personal expereince) but then it's your decission to give them another chance.
i give them chance.. always have.. and will keep giving.. but i know my self.. there is always a moment then i actually get over them.. and after THAT point.. they can't reach me.
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I believe that to truly enjoy Lush and sex with multiple partners jealousy has to be completely removed from the equation. If you are a jealous person, this is all just a powder keg waiting for the fuse.
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No I try to keep my jealousy under control and to myself if it creeps up on me. I joined this site to read, publish, chat with people and learn more bout the erotic side of me. I feel as though I have to leave myself open to chatting with all walks of life on lush. Wouldn't be fair for it to be okay for me but not the people I chat with. I have met some amazing people on here and hope for that to continue. This is my escape from my everyday life. I don't need to come onto lush only to be all worried about who's feelings I hurt or who I am allowed to talk with.
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No not at all, I joined lush to firstly read the stories and talk on the forums. The fact that I have made a couple of close friends is purely a bonus. There's no point in being jealous when people you have connected with flirt with others especially when you have never met and never will meet that person.
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Once in a while I'll have a meaningful discussion with someone and in the course of getting to know them I discover I really like them. There is often an exchange of words, kindness, and sincerity which I hope is true. So yes, when I see them interact with someone else in the same way they did with me, I have felt the pains of jealousy. I know it's silly but even in this fictitious world of lush, I want to feel special but I've learned to keep my emotions in check and I try to be mindful of how I treat others
Bonnet Flaunter
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I am not a remotely jealous person when it comes to relationships IRL, so when I have had a twinge of jealousy on here it has felt extremely disconcerting. I think in terms of this fictitious world its just my otherwise hidden insecurities being reflected back at me to deal with.