I had similar reactions from two different girlfriends, at different times in my life. They both enjoyed clitoral play. I enjoyed it too, given the rewards. At some stage, I asked each of them whether they occasionally play with themselves. Surprisingly, they provided similar answers, almost to the word: "when I touch my clit, I don't feel anything". They added, for good measure, that it was my job to touch there. I happily complied, knowing that after clit play they always wanted me inside.
I'm trying to turn this into a story, so I wonder how common this is. Does it happen to you that your clit is insensitive when you touch it yourself, but gives you great pleasure when your significant other plays with it ?
There is a scientific explanation of sorts. Our brains assign higher importance to external stimulus. For example, when we move around, our arms may come into contact with various objects. But we know this was caused by our own movement, so we are wired to ignore the signal. On contrast, when we are at rest and an object unexpectedly touches our arm, then we react immediately.
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Do you enjoy clit play, but only when someone else does it for you?
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I can assure you my clit never fails to respond to any form of touching, sucking or any other form of stimulation whether I do it or somebody else.
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Uh I can make mine work just fine?
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I have never touched a clit when it didn't respond.
Perhaps I should have mentioned the cultural element. Both girls grew up at a time and place not affected by the sexual revolution. In bed, they were still able to articulate their desires. But toys were not available, and female masturbation was not a topic discussed among girls.
Rainbow Warrior
Sexual arousal is in the mind, and I have a fertile mind, even when my own fingers are at work.
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Yes .. if i just randomly touch my clitoris i don't instantly become turned its not a switch on button, i guess its the same as a guy when you touch the end of your penis during every day life... BUT... How else / what else is there to give a girl an orgasm? its why mother nature hides a clitoris under a little hood. I like most girls don't need penetration to orgasm, play nicely with my clitty and yes i'll orgasm. (right time right place ) but also remember to stop after as it can be almost painful after orgasm.
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