Everyone has paid for sex in one way or another. Cash is just one of the most obvious ways, and no, it doesn't bother me.
No such thing as free anything
If he's paid for sex after we've been together, without discussing it with me? Yes, I'd care.
If it happened before us? No... why would I?
It's like caring that your partner had relationships before being with you... The business part of it is irrelevant.
If he paid before we started dating, it doesn’t bother me.
Sex is a very transactional thing. Love sex results in an exchange of (hopefully) wonderful emotions and physical satisfaction. Sport sex results in possibly some good emotions and most probably physical satisfaction. Sex for money results in one party gaining monetarily while the other gains some physical satisfaction. I could go on... As others have said the past is past. If he felt it necessary when we were a couple then there would have to be some very serious discussion.
I don't care, as long as it's not been to cheat on me.
When I was single and not in the mood for a relationship, there were times I wished I could just get a male whore easily and legally. I didn't want a convo and didn't want to wonder if the dude was a serial killer or sick or if it'd become gossip for others. I just wanted to fuck, and to fuck someone good at fucking. Lol I'm not sure what's weird about it, man or woman. ?♀️
What he did before we were married, is on him. If he were to do it now, we would be living in different houses.
If that is the only way he can sleep with a woman, then yes.
I have a fantasy about being paid for sex, but I doubt I would have the nerve to follow through on it
I've heard it said that they are really paying for them to go away after sex.
I'd guess that men paying for sex are paying for non-emotional sex with no strings attached.
But it would be a hazardous thing to do. A lot of police set up undercover police women on the streets in sting operations. It's an expensive fine and one way for municipalities and police departments bring in revenue. If the customer is driving a car and stopping to pick up the 'prostitute' the police can actually impound and confiscate the vehicle without any compensation to the owner.
The guy would have lost his vehicle, paid a steep fine, and have a permament arrest record that keeps him from getting a good job... just for a some strange no-ties pussy.
Why is it illegal in the first place? If both parties are mutually winning shouldn't they have the right to engage in it?
