yes.... i love it at times.... it gives that certain rush.... grinnin
but you need the time to get started and enjoy it
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If the person on the other end has the imagination and creativity to make me feel as though I'm there with them on some level, then... Yes. I have always been a fan of using the mind to get myself and another aroused. I was writing sexually charged letters before I ever had a computer. Erotic notes can have a powerful effect if written well, the same with cyber. Cam to cam is GREAT when you find someone whom you've connected with and can enjoy watching their face as well as their body when they have an orgasm. But the exchange of the right words has a very stimulating effect on me. I love to find another woman whose mind is her most erogenous zone and exchange that kind of mental eroticism... a mind fuck can be a good thing.
I was surprised at the number of negative answers to this one. Maybe those who enjoy it were otherwise occupied, lol. Yes, I do enjoy a cyber session. Of course, there is a better connection with some than others. I love it when I can be surprised by what makes me hot. There are a certain few with whom it can be particularly intense.
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I was surprised at the number of negative answers to this one. Maybe those who enjoy it were otherwise occupied, lol. Yes, I do enjoy a cyber session. Of course, there is a better connection with some than others. I love it when I can be surprised by what makes me hot. There are a certain few with whom it can be particularly intense.
totally agree...smile
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I enjoy a good cyber session, but I have to feel a connection with the one I am cybering with...I have been fortunate to have been with several here on Lush in the past that had a great imagination and were quite descriptive in what they were doing. I find that masturbation is much more enjoyable if you have someone to share it with. I have a partner now I care deeply for and who knows how to get me off. I always have amazing orgasms when she and I are together...
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Yes but only with a very certain few people I've have had relationships with for a year or longer. I'm about to turn that poking thing off cuz I get poked constantly with guys looking for cyber like I'm the Lush cyber whore for their personal use ugh! 
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
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I think Jenni and Bunny said it best! We need that connection beyond descriptive words to make the experience more intense and meaningful!
I need an interactive person that is descriptive as well as imaginative and can hold a decent conversation that is responsive to what I am saying with them!
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Steph
I need an interactive person that is descriptive as well as imaginative and can hold a decent conversation that is responsive to what I am saying with them!
Kisses!
Steph
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Of course that's why i joined the site 
and for the stories of course. Cybering is sooo hot ;)
and for the stories of course. Cybering is sooo hot ;) 
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yep enjoy cyber , hate to masterbate alone
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If it happens, it is wonderful, but I don't access Lush or start a chat with a friend with the intention of having sex with her.
I had cyber sex with the author who led me to Lush before I joined Lush, but we never did anything like that on Lush. Actually it happened when I was helping her to get beyond a "writer's block" and we each assumed roles in her story. Very fulfilling; we had known each other for several years.
I have enjoyed sex with a couple of people I've met here but the sex was not planned--at least by me. It has come about because of something about which we are chatting--spontaneous and, on hindsight, wonderful. Only recently a young lady (yes, most of the ladies with whom I chat are younger than I) surprised me when she told me that she usually got herself off while we chatted; that flattery overwhelmed me.
So, after my long winded diatribe, the bottom line is that I could enjoy on-line sex as long as there is an existing meaningful relationship.
I had cyber sex with the author who led me to Lush before I joined Lush, but we never did anything like that on Lush. Actually it happened when I was helping her to get beyond a "writer's block" and we each assumed roles in her story. Very fulfilling; we had known each other for several years.
I have enjoyed sex with a couple of people I've met here but the sex was not planned--at least by me. It has come about because of something about which we are chatting--spontaneous and, on hindsight, wonderful. Only recently a young lady (yes, most of the ladies with whom I chat are younger than I) surprised me when she told me that she usually got herself off while we chatted; that flattery overwhelmed me.
So, after my long winded diatribe, the bottom line is that I could enjoy on-line sex as long as there is an existing meaningful relationship.
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The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
I hate to think of it as cyber... but I have engaged in that before, but in one case I would have to think of it as electron love. This woman I have met on Lush is an incredibly genuine person. She is warm,caring, beautiful, sweet, sexy and if our worlds were different...the thought would make my head spin. the only one that really stirs my soul.
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I am not into it as I have a fiance. I find it rather tedious when someone wants to cyber sex with me. I am playing online scrabble while someone thinks I'm getting off on their words.
Basically turn the sexual side off while cybering.
Basically turn the sexual side off while cybering.
"Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."
Simone de Beauvoir
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I truly cybered for the first time yesterday (started to a couple of times but wasn't feeling it) and even though I had to say goodbye quickly, IT WAS AMAZING. He knew just what to say and when to say it. I can't wait to do it with him again.
Gingerbread Lover
No, I absolutely freak when people try and start it with me. It's not at all what I am comfortable with or wanting. Quite often people start off by asking me questions which I am happy to answer, and then suddenly there is a point where I realise things are not a simple question-answer session and I am panicking because it is clear they were leading me furtively into something else.
I wish people would read my profile before chatting with me without me having to put things at the top like, "NO CYBERING - BOG OFF IF YOU WANT TO CYBER". Some of them see me as a "challenge", trying to "teach" me how to be comfortable with it. It's one of the main reasons why I hardly ever appear as "online".
I wish people would read my profile before chatting with me without me having to put things at the top like, "NO CYBERING - BOG OFF IF YOU WANT TO CYBER". Some of them see me as a "challenge", trying to "teach" me how to be comfortable with it. It's one of the main reasons why I hardly ever appear as "online".
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i enjoy cybering, when i have a good partner. actually i'm surprised that haven't indulged much since i've been here actively. that being said...i'm still looking for a playmate or 3 ;)
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Yes and no. When I'm in the mood (OK, read horny for that), and he, or more likely she, is good and into it as much as I am I can get very very turned on. And if she or he isn't that good at it, it's just a chance to practice typing.
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do you find it fun and arousing to cyber with someone on lush?
Yes! We (my husband and I) actually wrote a story about my first time 'cyber' with a guy on Lush. If it's with the right person I find myself getting very aroused...but not arousing when somebody asks to chat and then immediately says 'do you want to suck my cock?'
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