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VanGogh
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
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when you have a connection with someone .... it is an extension of just a chat.

but both parties have to be on the same wavelength and really good at expressing descriptions (and writing/typing) to keep the pace up.

the aaahh, ooooh, fuckkk yes ..... borrring ..... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Liz
Scarlet Seductress
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Quote by Poppet


I honestly don't think you're missing anything. And I don't think she was serious. *giggles* She is a great writer, but I doubt it still. smile




*giggles*

In all seriousness, it takes two to tango :)
There is no point trying to seduce someone into a little 'naughty talk' if they're really not into it, or feel uncomfortable doing it.
And it's not all 'ooh's' and 'ahh's' - it's a slow build-up, a graphic description of your most intimate desires and risqué fantasies. What you would like to do to them and what you would like them to do to you. It's an interactive story that evolves as it's told and leads... wherever you want it to.

*Straddles Poppet's hips and nuzzles my firm bottom into your lap. Presses my lips to yours in a delectable press of warm, soft flesh as I slowly hook my fingers underneath your t-shirt. Ever so slowly, I peel the delicate material up exposing inch by inch your sensitive, smooth torso and the swell of your delicious breasts...*

See?

I won't tell you what I did to her nipples
Guest
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Hmmm, just adding one more perspective here, I NEVER share pictures on the net. Not of my full frame, nor of any body parts. The internet DOES NOT have any pictures of me, and this shall remain the case forever. And that's because you can never really trust the person on the other end of the chat on the internet. So play it safe people, think of it like using protection in real life smile Of course others may choose to differ; to each their own.
Poppet
Cheeky Chick
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Quote by Liz


*giggles*

In all seriousness, it takes two to tango smile
There is no point trying to seduce someone into a little 'naughty talk' if they're really not into it, or feel uncomfortable doing it.
And it's not all 'ooh's' and 'ahh's' - it's a slow build-up, a graphic description of your most intimate desires and risqué fantasies. What you would like to do to them and what you would like them to do to you. It's an interactive story that evolves as it's told and leads... wherever you want it to.

*Straddles Poppet's hips and nuzzles my firm bottom into your lap. Presses my lips to yours in a delectable press of warm, soft flesh as I slowly hook my fingers underneath your t-shirt. Ever so slowly, I peel the delicate material up exposing inch by inch your sensitive, smooth torso and the swell of your delicious breasts...*

See?

I won't tell you what I did to her nipples


You're adorable.

You're right, it does take two to tango, and as I said in my first post, I'll play it out; I just won't be actually touching myself. If the person is good enough, I might think of them later on whilst I masturbate, but I'm not going to be when we're acting it out. I guess because I'm paying too much attention to what I'm saying.

*Wrapping my arms around Liz, I squeeze you bum lightly, feeling your lips press against mine. The lightest softest moan, escapes my throat, I can feel you expose my flesh, a cool tingling sensation teases my skin as you begin to undress me. My fingers grip on your bum once more, before pulling you all the closer to me…*

See?
Guest
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cyber is such a cyclical thing with me. i go for long periods of time here where i'm more interested in just chatting with lushies. then sometimes i need some help, or the chat evolves into cyber.

i find i do it less than when i started on lush. some of my friends only want to cyber & that's ok with me, i just let them know i'm not in the mood. sometimes i feel a little like i'm letting them down, but if i'm not in the mood, i'm not in the mood.

kisses
Guest
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I'm not a serial cyberist. In fact I haven't on Lush. It all has to do with timing and circumstance for me. If I'm turned on, yes. Just to cum, no..There has to be a commonality somewhere with me.. Anyone can cyber, but do all have self esteem?. I do
secretspice
Active Ink Slinger
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If you find the right person to cyber with it can be fun, but they have to be into just like you are.
LillyLush
Active Ink Slinger
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When I joined Lush it used to be fun... difference in style and taste was unique and that got me addicted to some extent, because there are such smart people here who can hold my interest! They're funny as well as dirty to my liking... I do play with those girls from time to time... so yes I do it with certain loveable women here smile
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
Guest
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I have enjoyed cyber - I find it exciting and sexy that I can, through turning thoughts in my head into moves for my fingers on a keyboard, make a man orgasm and spurt his load

I find it works best when we agree a story to roleplay - can be ourselves but in an agreed situation like the beach or a bar or a hotel or my number one - being chatted up in the conference hotel bar when i'm there for the annual works conference - then it can go as far as we want
Guest
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I personally really enjoy it. I've had many orgasms so far ;)
Sadiemwf
Advanced Wordsmith
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I feel really silly cybering when I've done it...I really don't like it. I would much rather talk about real sexual adventures. I find a lot of things arousing, and would prefer to discuss events or ideas that are exciting instead of pretending I am with someone, or that I want to be with someone I don't really know. That just makes me feel creepy.
Guest
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Quote by Sadiemwf
I feel really silly cybering when I've done it...I really don't like it. I would much rather talk about real sexual adventures. I find a lot of things arousing, and would prefer to discuss events or ideas that are exciting instead of pretending I am with someone, or that I want to be with someone I don't really know. That just makes me feel creepy.

I feel like I can completely relate to this! Hearing about someone else's sexual adventures can be a real turn on compared to pretending to have one!
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it depends on who with
honeydipped
The Bee's Knees
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yes, yes i do.

Say. Her. Name.
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Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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I have greatly enjoyed it in the past, and occasionally now. TOO MUCH typing involved though, it gets tedious. Sexy texts followed by phone is a nice combo, so you can stop typing and focus. smile
Beffer
Rainbow Warrior
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When I have an interesting partner to cyber with, it can be fun. As senior mod and 'Front Whore' on a girls-only social site for lesbians and bisexual women, I've been doing it for more than 7 years with our members. The site owner more or less expects me to do it in my role as social director for the site. But after doing it with countless women for the better part of a decade, it gets a little old. I've only done it with 3 women here on Lush, and they were special.
Smoocher
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
When I have an interesting partner to cyber with, it can be fun. As senior mod and 'Front Whore' on a girls-only social site for lesbians and bisexual women, I've been doing it for more than 7 years with our members. The site owner more or less expects me to do it in my role as social director for the site. But after doing it with countless women for the better part of a decade, it gets a little old. I've only done it with 3 women here on Lush, and they were special.



WHAT!! No special guys or are there too many to count??
Beffer
Rainbow Warrior
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Quote by Smoocher



WHAT!! No special guys or are there too many to count??



I've only ever cybered with a guy once in 10 years, and he was the boyfriend of one of the girls I was close to. She wanted to share him with me, so I obliged her, but ordinarily, I'd never do it with a guy online.
Meggsy
Active Ink Slinger
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I have a couple of other women that I cyber with occasionally and its fun. One has never been with another woman and thats interesting.
No guys though. I save them for the real thing.
puppett
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i like the idea of it... but practically... i guess maybe
EvelynLi
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"to cyber" - interesting. I have actually had a lot of very intense encounters in cyberspace, but it very much depends on my mood and I'm pretty selective.
secretspice
Active Ink Slinger
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I do like to cyber with the right person, it has to be someone that I get to know and that I have a connection with....
Guest
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not in the least...its seems quite plastic to me.....i came to Lush to have the kind of real conversations that I might have over a glass of tea at a cafe, or sitting out by the pool....it doesnt mean I dont talk about sex....quite the contrary....i just dont want to be responsible for you getting your "jollies" here
Fletch64
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Quote by Sadiemwf
I feel really silly cybering when I've done it...I really don't like it. I would much rather talk about real sexual adventures. I find a lot of things arousing, and would prefer to discuss events or ideas that are exciting instead of pretending I am with someone, or that I want to be with someone I don't really know. That just makes me feel creepy.


Pretty much. I tried it
I agree with what V said also.
Resurrection the Beginning...My first story...Please feel free to have a look

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/resurrection-the-beginning.aspx

Resurrection the Resurgence...Second in the series...

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/resurrection-the-resurgence.aspx

Resurrection the Redemption...Third in the series...

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/novels/resurrectionthe-redemption.aspx
KatieTheWriter
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I really enjoy cybering but you have to have the right partner, some people just don't have a clue. sometimes it can be fun to teach them how to do it properly but often guys can be very unreceptive. The best cybers are with people you have been talking to for a while and actually built up some sort of connection. Of course that doesn't mean that a one off fiery passion session cant be fun too.
Dancewithme
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Quote by VanGogh
when you have a connection with someone .... it is an extension of just a chat.

but both parties have to be on the same wavelength and really good at expressing descriptions (and writing/typing) to keep the pace up.

the aaahh, ooooh, fuckkk yes ..... borrring ..... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz



This is the way it is for me too.
Guest
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while i've not cybered with another on lush, i have done so elsewhere. as others have implied above, the "like" part of the question is dependent on the connection you have with another. flirting beforehand is always welcomed; it allows both of you to playfully uncover more. i DO believe that each takes away from the experience that which they put in. distracted and delayed responses result in lackluster cyber, while thoughtful and flowing responses result in a delightful cyber. imagination, creativity, and attention to detail turn a delightful cyber into a notable experience. placing one another's needs before each's own, results in unforgettable cyber - worthy of that faint smile whenever it's remembered
Guest
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hate it with a passion.....it seems very artificial to me......i enjoy chatting about sex, but I dont want that chat to be about pretending what we are doing to each other and being responsible for your orgasm, when I cant even see you
Guest
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I actually enjoy it knowing that the person I'm cybering with is masturbating too