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do girls really enjoy sexting?

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Active Ink Slinger
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iv had my share of sexting expierences with females and i was wondering if girls really do enjoy it, or they just do it to help the guy out so he doesnt ask for a little bit lol.
Lurker
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Same as cyber sex.... i only enjoy it with someone im close with, friends with, in a relationship with, or want to shag. I wouldnt randomly give out my number so some guy i dont know can text out a lush story
Wild at Heart
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I think if she enjoys sex with you or would like to enjoy sex with you then yes, she will enjoy sexting.
Alpha Blonde
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Yes, I enjoy it, but it has to be with someone I'm really hot for. It's important to vary it with both messages and pics and not just some preliminary "I'm horny" and then blowing up my phone with three dozen dick pics from different angles and expecting it to turn me on. It's about finding that balance. When it's done well, it's very hot.

You have to be really mutually into each other though. I once did it with a guy I didn't know that well and wasn't that into. Anyway, it was really lame. I just couldn't get into it and it pretty much killed any interest I had in him before we started sexting that night. With other guys, it's actually increased my desire/interest in them.
The Bee's Knees
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i enjoy sexting. however, like with anything else, if you're not in the mood it's not enjoyable.

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Yes, I enjoy sexting but only if it's with someone who can really turn me on or somebody I am close to. Also, I hate men who beg for pictures but give absolutely nothing in return... Complete turn-off fellas. There should be a balance between text, pictures and videos to keep it interesting. Sexting is a great way to break the ice with someone you have a particular interest in. It's made things much smoother and less awkward for me in several circumstances.

When it comes to phone sex... I think it's hot as hell! I love hearing my partner tell me what he's going to do to me and I am a very verbal person, so I definitely love moaning! However, I am really shy! I don't just hand my number out and if I have had phone sex with you, I've had to of been pretty comfortable around you! I always feel like I am going to run out of things to say or I will never be able to give as good as I am getting.

Finally... Video chat. It's not for me, but everyone has their preferences. I am not a very visual person. I do not like porn and pictures don't do much for me. I would much rather hear or read something from my partner than see it... But that's just me. I don't get off to watching my partner jerk off... Doesn't do much for me..
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If it's someone I already know, then I love a bit of sexting... especially if it starts out as normal, everyday conversation that gets steadily more flirty, until I get really hot over it. And sometimes I go from there to the phone, and by the time I get THERE... well, then things get interesting. smile I'm pretty shy in person, too, so I can really let go by text or over the phone, and say stuff that I've always wanted to, but couldn't, face to face. ;)
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i enjoy sexting and cybering both the same and have been told my skills at crafting up a quick story when she is in the mood are very good because i can be so detailed. do you girls like alot of detail when sexting/cybering?
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sexting is one thing, an amateur mirror pic or pussy/tit close up or even just a pic in which i am wearing something sexi to get the person on the other end going can be fun and entertainign especially if you are in a relationship and haven't seen the other in awhile and you hope they send a pic back. i have sexted and i am sure some the guys i broke it off with have publicsied the photos i sent them but i really don't care. as for cybering, i wouldnt cyber.
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I love and enjoy sexting.. It can be a hot flirt leading up over an hour up to and including all day and most of the night. The tease the words..If you can image the words and the setting how can that not be sexy??
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Active Ink Slinger
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I very much enjoy sexting as long as its with someone I'm comfortable with.
Bunker Love
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I would not be here
Rainbow Warrior
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I haven't done it in over 10 years, but in my twenties, I enjoyed sexting with my girlfriend.
Chatterbox Blonde- Rumps Mystical Bartender
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Oh yes, but keep it creative, keep it flirtatious and keep it hot.
And for the love of heaven keep going till you can be in my arms.
Then be ready for action because if you sext me right I certainly will be.
Whatever was posted is always meant in love and respect never to offend.
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Yes, I do. I love it so much. Sexting keeps me horny daytime and when he visits me we fuck wild.

Nafisa
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Yes, but not explicit. When I reach the point in a relationship where I text my memories of or intentions for sex to someone, I always text in code. If I gave a really wonderful bj to a friend recently, and really enjoyed it and wanted an encore, I might send something like, "that stroll we took the other day was nice, and the snackbar was awesome. Lets do it again". When it comes out of the blue like that, its nice to see if someone has enough imagination to connect a stroll and snackbar with making out and blowjob. Either way, if I'm in a relationship with someone, I ask that we decide on codewords to use to ask for or comment on sex things.

I'm a private person in real life, and Its too easy for someone (like a parent or friend) to pick up your phone when a text buzzes in, and read it.