Do you enjoy dirty talk before sex
What specific phrases turn you on?
Are there any that turn you off
Usually I'd rather not talk during sex except for the occasional "f-me" at the appropriate times. Never was a good multitasker. In literature it's one thing, but in real life it just feels contrived.
During cyber? Ok, that will up the game, but I draw the line at derogatory name calling and the c-word.
I agree about using the c word. I would never use it
Not talking at all would be quite uncomfortable and awkward for me. And since talking is expected, we may as well talk about what's going on sexually rather than talk about the weather, penguins or abstract art.
I'm not easily offended, as long as what's being said isn't overly lame or overly harsh. Calling me an "itty-bitty cunt" would be an example of both.
What about calling you a slut or a whor, would that offed you??
Depends on the woman. Some love it.
I might tolerate it, but it will never turn me on because I was threatened by a total stranger using those very words after I got off work one night. Had nothing to do with how I was dressed either because it was the middle of winter and I was bundled up so as not to tell if I was a male or female.
My point is, it's a good idea to ask first.
dirty talk before sex? i'm assuming you're referring to naughty/risqué conversations held beforehand, perhaps texts throughout the day, or at dinner. if that's so - i am all for it! those illicit words/phrases get the fire going and is well worth it.
turn offs include, someone who actually has no idea what they're doing, or someone who is completely vulgar. this is obviously subjective, so you'll need to know your partner's likes and dislikes.