so honestly ladies, or are there any out there that will be honest, is sex all that it is about or is there any girls out there that honestly love to cuddle, to let a guy just get her to sit down and wait on her hand and foot, baically, does real love exist anymore, or should i just let my dick control my love life??
There are lots of questions here to answer, so let me start by saying that...
Yes, there are honest ladies still out here and sex is not what it is all about although at this day and age it seems that way at times. There are still plenty of us girls that do love to cuddle close and be spoiled ridiculously, and it goes without saying that in a heartbeat, my mate would get the same treatment as given to me. Maybe not everyone is like that, but in my world, that is how I see it. And as hard as it may be able to believe, real love is out there. When you find it, it will knock you down and have wonder where on earth did feelings like this come from. I promise this is true. The last question, well, if you let that happen, at some point in your life you will have this void in your heart leaving you to question every decision you made. It will have you yearning for an emotional connection that that particular lifestyle will never give you. Don't give up on us ladies that still have a heart and know what it takes to make a relationship fulfilling.
Why just let it control your love life? I mean really, why stop there? Let it control your whole life...when you get the urge, bend the nearest female over and let your dick have it's lifestyle of choice.
Eye roll. I'm sure you already know the answer to this question - think about it!
You make it sound like a choice! We can't have great sex AND cuddles? I for one love to fall asleep spooning with my bf every night.
Of course real love exists but something it does require is showing just a little bit of vulnerability. Something that people can be reluctant to show early in a relationship. It has to develop over time IMO.
I can't answer for everyone but I'll tell you what I think:
Personally, I would take cuddles over sex, sensuality over sexuality and love over lust, anytime. Cuddles - or even hugs - can make you feel more loved and connected to someone than having sex with them does sometimes. (Even though sex isn't bad either ;)) The security and warmth and and fuzziness of cuddles are love.
And I do consider myself to be a lady and I know that love still exsists... and that it is the most wonderful thing in the universe.
Maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic and a dying breed though, I wouldn't know.
Give me both! Nothing like curling up in someone's arms, being held tight and sweet after a delicious round of intense sexing!
I'm very much a snuggly person. I'm soft and a bit round, and I love to snuggle up to friends and boyfriends. I could happily while away hours in my Master's embrace, talking, watching a film, or both of us reading.
Sigh. I want suggles now.
I'm weird, but I don't like it / need it after sex. I like it falling asleep with a lover on non sex nights. But after sex I often like to be "on my own". But, again, I'm weird.
Real love most definitely does exist. And cuddling is all part of sex for me. I love to just cuddle after sex, in place of sex, in between sex, etc. There is no better feeling than holding my SO and making eye contact and knowing how we feel. It makes it all very special!!
Seems to me maybe you are looking for an excuse to have your cock run your life. But that is cool if sex is all you want.
Cuddling, aftercare, kisses and caresses are just as important as the act of intercourse. While you can't have sex every waking moment, there are times when cuddling is all you want or need. A good lover senses it.
Yes, it is there. You have to see it though, not look through it. And honestly, cuddling can be as intimate as sex, IMO. And to me, being held in someone's arms, being told I'm loved and wanted and needed, is better than sex itself. And being spoiled or waited on, that would be a dream come true! And of course, I would reciprocate that.
I think several of the women/girls have put it succinctly: we expect men to multi-task these days. Yes, you must be good in bed, you must know how to use your tongue, your fingers, the spoken word and.....ummmm.....I'm forgetting something girls? Oh yes, AND YOUR COCK! Please do not be a premature ejaculator since this will lead to immense frustration for us ladies. Learn about vibrators, gels, and...ummm.....am I forgetting something girls? Oh yes, poetry. Recite us a poem. Cuddling? Of course afterwards, after "taking care of business", you have to know how to cuddle and be sweet.....but the major sweetness should come AFTER you have given us a huge dose of flirtation and teasing build-up followed by multiple.....yes I did say MULTIPLE huge orgasms.....your tongue and fingers tantalizing every inch of our bodies until we are exhausted. Then, if you want to make me tea, give me a massage, rub my feet, recite me a poem, cuddle and watch TV? Well that would be great!! Usually I find that snuggling close and cuddling sorta naturally, somehow, leads to nakedness and wild sex?? IDK, maybe I'm strange haha.
I have lots of little cute cuddly things which I do...he gives me that look like "seriously"...but then as I cuddle into him...he smiles. :) It's really sweet. 
