You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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when do you like to cuddle?
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It really depends on how much I like the person. A first date snuggler or casual dating hyper-cuddler can stress me out a bit. Mainly because I find it an intimate thing to do, and need a connection there for me to really get into it and want to do it all the time. Having said that, if I'm really into someone, and connecting with them, then I love physical contact as often as I can get it. I just usually have to work my way up to that point, or else I can sometimes feel a bit smothered and run the other way. Needless to say, cuddling with a fuckbuddy or on a one night stand is not my thing.
When the vibe is right or I'm in a relationship, I love it any time of the day and night, *except* during REM sleep where I like to have my space on the bed. I am a big fan of spooning to end and start the day. But... I especially dislike long periods of time in the cuddling position that a lot of guys seem to favour which is my head on his chest, and one arm and leg around him while he rests comfortably on his back. As lovely as this is after sex or just for some random afternoon cuddling, this is not a comfortable position to fall asleep in. I once was with a guy that trapped me in this position for most of the night and I hardly slept at all. The human body does not make a good pillow, and when the circulation stops in my arm because it's twisted into a weird position for a long time, it's just not romantic...
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It really depends on how much I like the person. A first date snuggler or casual dating hyper-cuddler can stress me out a bit. Mainly because I find it an intimate thing to do, and need a connection there for me to really get into it and want to do it all the time. Having said that, if I'm really into someone, and connecting with them, then I love physical contact as often as I can get it. I just usually have to work my way up to that point, or else I can sometimes feel a bit smothered and run the other way. Needless to say, cuddling with a fuckbuddy or on a one night stand is not my thing.
When the vibe is right or I'm in a relationship, I love it any time of the day and night, *except* during REM sleep where I like to have my space on the bed. I am a big fan of spooning to end and start the day. But... I especially dislike long periods of time in the cuddling position that a lot of guys seem to favour which is my head on his chest, and one arm and leg around him while he rests comfortably on his back. As lovely as this is after sex or just for some random afternoon cuddling, this is not a comfortable position to fall asleep in. I once was with a guy that trapped me in this position for most of the night and I hardly slept at all. The human body does not make a good pillow, and when the circulation stops in my arm because it's twisted into a weird position for a long time, it's just not romantic...
Doll said it perfectly.
i love it anytime anywhere as long as i am close to them, and i feel comfortable with that person<3
