Imagine you are with your boyfriend and some other friends in a bar. Sitting next to you there's a May/December couple, the guy 2 o 3 times older than the girl. You overhear your boyfriend whispering to his male friend "I wanna be like him when I get his age".
Would you deem it as just a joke and don´t think about it? Or would you think he really meant it? And if so, what would you do?