I am really reserved, laid back and I am not above the average. I really don't have anything to compare my cock to, I have never seen another erection.
I haven't really noticed a correlation between cock-size and self confidence, and though I don't like to generalize, I have noticed that guys with smaller cocks are more often mean-spirited pricks!
Until five years ago I did not have any real means of comparison, and I am not sure even now that size and personality necessarily go together. What I would suggest is that men with smaller equipment do not necessarily have the self-confidence sexually that larger men do. However, I would also add that larger men seem constantly in need of reaffirmation that they are bigger than average -- so I suppose most men have a certain insecurity when it comes to the summit of their manhood
I remember seeing a documentary on that American guy that has a 12 inch penis that is also thicker than a door nob or something like that and I actually feel sorry for him in that so much of his life has revolved around his penis and everything always comes back to that so really this guy is and will always be completely defined by his penis so much so that he has never really developed his own personality (if that makes sense). The way he has sort of turned out he is essentially a 12 inch penis that happens to be attached to a human and that is how he sees himself I think.
I think if a person is humble and content with what they were born with then their personality is pretty decent some people are just naturally assholes don't believe penis size has anything to do with it
I tend to find the more laid back, or quietly confident men are those most well equipped. The type of men who walk around acting as if they own the biggest cock in the bar tend to have very average or even small packages. Of course this doesn't apply to everyone, I've come across loud confident men who are so because they are fully aware that they are more than well equipped for any woman. But in general the more calm and composed men have the bigger cocks, in my personal experience.
I'd like to weigh in (get it? weigh in?) here I'm a bit above average, but would never make it as a porn star.
I'm just very comfortable around anyone and just act as myself (with a sense of humor). Whenever I've met
a woman, I was never thinking yeah I can be 'Cocky'..? I got nothing to worry about if we ever get down.
My GF (who was a model at one time) asked me early on when we started dating "Do you ever get nervous
around good looking girls?" I said "when I hit around 20 years old I got the ability to just be myself, I don't
need to pretend or try to impress, if I were around a really good looking girl, if they didn't care....then 'F' em
figuratively"
But, then again on our 1st date I got a hardon at the table sitting facing her in the restaurant, so she kind
of got an idea before taking the car off the lot....hey wait a minute, maybe it wasn't my personality.
For the record, we're coming up on our 4th year together.
Bunited2
I don't think my last post was really that useful as to add to the subject, but I have been a student
of the human Psyche since I was a teenager. I read the book 'Body Language' when I was 14, by the
way ladies when you're talking to a guy, if you watch his mouth when he talks, you're an open book,
trust me it's true.
If you want to do any type of a scientific 'pre-interview' especially on a date, not in a bar when you
1st meet, ask him 'how many GF's have you had in the last 5 years?' if he say's 2 or 3 he's probably
got something going, then ask 'how long were they?', if he say's 1.5 months you know there's something
going on somewhere. He's either an A Hole...or?
If he say's 1 yr, 2 yr's, etc...if he wasn't that big he would never have made it that long, unless he was
talented, which is another angle (as it were).
Then depending on age and other factors, you can't beat a guy that makes you happy...right?
Bunited2
Not to be a bitch or put down any man but from experience I have found men with large cocks are more self-confident and pleasure my body more than men with smaller cocks. My husband has a small cock and needed constant reassurance which after years of having to build his self-confidence up left me tired of it and turned me off resulting in my dating other men.
