I've know several women who found it difficult to impossible to reach orgasm just from intercourse. These ladies needed more direct clitoral stimulation from my mouth or fingers. Assuming I don't completely suck as a cocksmen, (okay be gentle with me here ladies, my ego is a fragile thing) how many of you ladies need that extra bit of help, and if you do is intercourse something you crave, or just more of a way to make your man happy.
I can orgasm through intercourse, but I have to reach an emotional peak with my partner, to be able to let go and orgasam.
I think on the times I haven't come and that is usually because I didn't come at the same time as my partner. I like making making love even if I don't come, the feeling of him inside me is pleasurable and also feeling him come inside me gets me all turned on, it's an exhilarating feeling.
I really do hope I am not the only one to admit it, but I cannot orgasm by intercourse alone. I too, need clitoral stimulation such as mouth, fingers (theirs or mine), or my favorite, a small vibrator.
When I first started having intercourse, you could say yes, I did it just to make my man happy. I then started exploring my body and found I could orgasm by clitoral stimulation, and started combining it with intercourse. Now I love having him inside me and using my toy at the same time.
But I must say, I do love sex without stimulation as well and just because I don't orgasm, it doesn't mean I enjoy it any less. The closeness and touch of another body is often satisfying in itself. Even more satisfying is if you happen to be in love....
I suppose I really did not enjoy sex at first because I was made to feel guilty by not cumming by sex alone by the countless articles in teen magazines which basically said that it was not normal if you didn't. But after a lot of research, I have found out that I am not alone and it is common, and that it is even normal if you never orgasm.
I hope I answered all your questions Milik...
I only have sex to please my man.
lol just kidding, I can cum from that alone but not everytime! Also depends on how turned on I am etc. I have friends and coworkers that cant do it without the clitoris but you still enjoy fucking even if you don't cum. It's not like it sucks and doesn't feel good without an orgasm.
I want to thank you ladies for your candid answers. I have found that if go I slowly and use my fingers to help my lady while we make love, the added stimulation is often enough to let her reach her peak before I do. I wish I had enough stamina to last long enough for that to be necessary, but the truth is that on most occsions I don't.
I think with each time and each partner it can vary tremendously. With some partners I can come just from kissing... With others, its impossible at all. For me it depends on how in synch I am with my lover and what's happening between us.
Then again, I'm also the oddball girl that can orgasm without any physical stimulation at all, but from just thinking sexual thoughts. I have also orgasmed from just pent up stress release (with nothing to do with sex at all).
I don't know... I'm a strange breed...
But mostly in terms of sex, it depends on my mood, and who I'm with...
If there isn't any foreplay before intercourse then no.
Tell ya the truth, it depends on the guy. With a couple guys ive been with, I orgasm in a mnue during orgasm. From some guys it takes more than just the usual in and out.
Personally I don't orgasm from the penetration alone. I do so from the touches, kisses, moans, sweet-nothings that are whispered, the heavy breathing from my partner, their look of ecstasy, the closeness of their body... The female orgasm is different from woman to woman anyways, some girls orgasm frequently and strongly from intercourse, others from oral sex, others from satisfying their partner- just find what she likes and keep at it till she passes out into a happy post-sex-coma.
I can, but I am such a hard work, we usually give up and just go the easy way, but I still think, the feeling of him inside me, filling me is the best, even if I don't happen to cum.
Yes,No and Sometimes.
Under the right conditions, with the right man/woman I can start mini orgasms with just a touch most anywhere.
Unless the guy can last only a minute or two I most often time can cum from just vaginal penetration.
And then their is those other time when I think there is nothing that will let me cum tonight and must try every possible technique.
Generally I am very orgasmic, but I now believe that I am the cause of failure as much my partner on those other times.
Sometimes things that don't make me cum still feel good. I don't typically cum from giving a blowjob either (actually never), but I like making my partners feel good. Orgasms are not overrated, but neither are they the entire point of sex (at least for me).
With age and some meds it is hard to finish, but it still feels great and it is wonderful being so close to the woman I love.
Rarely, is the sexual act just involve intercourse for me. Almost always there is foreplay beforehand, whether visual, or physical which then leads to intercourse. I quite often with orgasm from foreplay and then orgasm again from intercourse and even orgasm from afterplay. There have been times when passion overtook us and we went straight to intercourse, for some reason. On those times, usually the passion that led us to go straight to intercourse, allows me to orgasm from that. I also have to admit that while having intercourse, we are interplaying with each other with adds to the excitement and heightens the orgasm when it occurs.
If my partner goes down on me first and brings me to climax orally, then I always continue to have orgasms from intercourse afterwards. If not, then it depends on how skilled my partner is. But usually, intercourse yields at least one orgasm. I cum pretty easily and quickly.
It’s being said over and over. With the right foreplay, intercourse brings about an orgasm. I agree also
I think I maybe orgasmed from intercourse only once in my life. Most of the time it's via clitoral stimulation, but I still enjoy the intimacy and physical pleasure of sex
Yes absolutely and without touching myself
I read somewhere that about 30% of women can cum from just intercourse. I need some stimulation in addition. If I have just had an orgasm and we have intercourse immediately, before I’m quite finished, I can cum again. I like intercourse even if I don’t cum, especially if we have had a good time with foreplay. Cock just feels good.
I can and i do, but it easier if I have already come from oral, and then i have another orgasm on his cock.
Sometimes I do but I would always have intercourse as it's the ultimate form of intimacy as far as I'm concerned
I have only ever had one man inside me, my husband. I almost always have at least one orgasm. We don’t do quickie sex. We make love and I’m a slow burner. It’s all in the mind.
Be nice to each other
Female climax through intercourse is achieved mainly by clit stimulation. Try having him wear a cock ring with a clit "banger" or vibrator on it. May want to try having your lover lick you to orgasm before hand.
I agree with Verity that much of it is in the mind. I virtually always do (guess I have a dirty mind!) and often many times if we've built up to it with lots of foreplay. The foreplay doesn't always have to be physical either. My husband is excellent at teasing me and getting me aroused with dirty storis and sex talk like what he intends to do to me, without even touching me. Sometimes I'll be driping before he lays a finger on me (or in me) and then I climax very quickly and easily.
If he lasts long to be honest else I need foreplay
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