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Being stared at by men on the street?

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happens all the time. not really a big deal
An appreciative glance, ok, but leering (especially when it's more than one guy) is creepy. Do it to me and I'll flick a booger at you.
I've looked at girls and women all my life if they're attractive. If she takes pride in her appearance she must expect admiring looks. When they notice me I just smile, most times they smile back. I'm gay so I'm never leering at their boobs or staring at their ass. The strange thing is I only take a quick glance at guys, even in gay clubs, although I do glance back.
If I notice a man staring at me it usually takes me by surprise. I give an appreciative smile in return but keep on going about my business.
I guess I enjoy being found attractive, so I reflexively smile when a man smiles at me. I try to ignore any leers and usually don't mind them too much, but occasionally I do get creeped out when a man stares.

I rather like when I'm with my friends and men look our way if their eyes meet mine first.
I sometimes act like it bothers me but really it turns me on.

Low key, I enjoy being eye fucked smile Thats why I wear what I wear, to get attention from guys.
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Thats why I wear what I wear, to get attention from guys.



Exactly, I do not buy clothes thinking, "this will look good when I am watching tv". I buy for how good they make me look, to women as well as to men, when I go out.
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This. When I was in grad school a male acquaintance of mine was following me up a long flight of stairs. I was wearing a rather tight skirt. I noticed that he was walking unusually slowly. I stopped to fix my shoe and he stopped too, several stairs behind me. I made a test of it and stopped again. So did he. I looked over my shoulder and asked him what he was doing. He said "just enjoying the view." At the time I was very annoyed for some reason. In retrospect it seems amusing and mildly flattering.



So that was you? Damn, there's another "what if" moment.

Turn off if it is a decent guy and cant make a move :P
If the look is from a good looking, well dressed man, YES, it makes me feel even sexier, but if from a slobbish guy, or some droopy pants jerk, NO.
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I love it, and a few times, I have rewarded my admirer(s) by giving them a peek- like "innocently" dropping something, and squatting down to pick it up. I've practiced this, and in a short skirt with no panties, I;ve gotten some great reactions.
I actually love it I try not to pay to much attention though.
I'd probably be thinking 'OMG is there something something on my face'/ 'why is he staring at me?' And then I'd walk away too quickly with utter embarrassment thinking something was wrong with me. Either that or I don't notice at all because my nose is in a book.
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Appreciative glance = Good.

Leering = Bad.

There is definitely a distinct difference... (unless he's hot! LOL)


I second this. I've snapped at men on the street for being creepy and leering at me, but if a man gives an appreciative glance, I will smile and say hi to the poor fella.
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I'm not a fan of being stared at it makes me feel a bit self conscious.

If it's just a glance with a smile, that's perfectly fine.

If it's a long blatant state, that creeps me out.

The age of the guy staring is also a big factor.
If they're staring for too long it's creepy, but I'm fine with quick glances
A nice stare or glance is nice very appreciative
I'm a pretty damn good kickboxer so I'm not afraid of them trying to cross the line with me, so I love it!! I make sure to give them something to stare at!!!!
Love it, l dont dress well to be ignored!!!
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Love it, l dont dress well to be ignored!!!


^^^^^
this
Thank you for the comments ladies. I will keep my glances to short appreciative ones, and leave the droopy pants at home!
yes i do love it. when i was single especially. during my slutty period i would even tease a few men in public places if I noticed they were looking. i have to confess that more than once this led to much more...
Doesn't often happen to me, so I'm inwardly quite pleased if somebody checks me out.
I love older men looking at me. I usually try to talk to them to show my appreciation.
If a young man looks at me I immediately assume they're staring at how ugly I am and I get embarrassed and defensive.
Weird how I have different perceptions but there we go.
The longer they look, the wetter i get
i don't like being leered at...but an appreciative glance makes my day ;)

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"When I'm high in spirits, I love when guys lust after me as I walk down down the street. I'll probably give the guy a wink and flash him a smile. But if I'm not in the mood, I'll probably turn around and scream,

"What the FUCK ya looking at!" and then storm off."

Haha that about sums it up for me too. Generally I like catching guys "looking" if you know what I mean. I especially like the young guys who get all flustered and blush. Sometimes Jen and I will even tease them to make them feel worse….sorry….I know it's mean.
An appreciative glance from a good looking guy or woman is always welcome, and is usually returned with a smile but staring, especially when it's several guys, no thanks.