Are your Nipples the Ultimate Barrier?

24 Jan 2012

I was once having sex with a girl and she told me before the action "you can´t touch my nipples". So I said "sure", but thinking "wtf".

So we proceded, the usual moves here an there, and during penetration my hand slid over her nipples, she stopped and said "I SAID MY NIPPLES ARE OFF LIMITS", very angry. She really had an issue with it.

It was just a night stand so I really didn´t investigate the causes, but she hinted her nipples were very sensitive, and she didn´t trust me enough to let me touch them, (we were just two strangers basically) I think she was afraid I could hurt them.

So this nipple incident made things very ankward, it's like she had this psychological barrier, perhaps from a previous past experience.

This just happened once, but I wonder if it's a common among women?

24 Jan 2012

I don't think so. I've never heard of this before (not that it's a common topic to talk about with other women). I love for mine to be touched, a real turn on.

24 Jan 2012

I have never heard this either. I do know some women that have incredibly sensitive nipples so they really dont like to have any rough nipple play like twisting or biting. But to not allow touching at all, that is a first for me.

24 Jan 2012

I'm thinking maybe something medical was going on, either with her nipples or the surrounding area.

Or maybe she has a baby at home and is still nursing/leaking?

Or maybe she has implants or recent surgery or something going wrong there.

It's truly a strange thing to say to a guy, unless they're trying to avoid/hide something they'd rather not need to talk about during a one-nighter. That sounds far more plausible to me than someone just having 'sensitive nipples'... never heard of that to the point that you'd tell a guy not to touch them at all.

24 Jan 2012

Im with the other posts on this one!! I have never heard of a girl that tells a guy my nipples are off limit!! In fact i think i dont know any girl that doesnt like to get her nipples play with, yes some like it soft, some rough and some it depends in the mood, but not at all? Nope i havent heard of that.

Maybe she just have had some really bad experiences or as DD said some kind of issue with them at the moment, but no i dont think that is common or tyat they are the ultimate barrier!

24 Jan 2012

I know this thread is asking the gals but, I had an experience with a girl once in college that was along the lines of this thread -- We shared some fun experiences, however every time I would touch, kiss or even brush her nipples she would pull away. This happened on more than one occasion so eventually I asked her what was going on and she replied that she was incredibly sensitive and that no one but her "knew" how to touch them. A few years later I asked a buddy of mine that had a fling with her if it was still happening and he replied positively. So I guess there is at least one more person with the same "issue".

24 Jan 2012

Okay thanks for the answers. I didn´t talk about it with her, it was just an ankward job, I left after a while and didn´t see her again. I saw Californication a few days ago, and there was an incident involving uncle Charlie, and some nipple clamps and the subsequent rush to the hospital, and then remembered that girl...perhaps nipple accidents are more common that one could guess. (we didn´t have any clamps though, it was just regular sex on a drunken stupor)

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