Are young ladies attracted to older men?

While I don't have a preference for much younger women and am now happily married to a woman just 5 years younger, I did enjoy "a fling" about 7 years ago with a young woman who is 32 years younger than me. She was smart and articulate, a recent college grad then, and submissive. We were both single then, and I was living in a place with very few dating prospects. The fling turned into a very unique friendship that included wonderful sex. Neither of us were aiming for long term, and there was something freeing about that for both of us. I enjoyed everything about our conversations and the sex, and it is a nice memory for her and I. I don't think it would have been good to try to make it something more than a very lovely fling.

I’ve never been one for putting much stock in the age of a person to determine if they are somehow “right for me”. I don’t think how long a relationship lasts is a good indicator of whether it’s valid.

If it’s consensual, you’re having fun and you’re treating each other well then go for it. Of course the younger partner has to be well of age. If you’re going far older in your first sexual experience I’d be concerned about grooming.

"Attracted to" is kind of a vague term. There are so many aspects to attraction, and age ranks well down the list for me, as in I don't care if the other factors are there. Appearance, grooming, voice, smile, eyes, attitude, sense of humor, a willingness to be open and have fun, even a nice scent and probably several other things come before age, which in and of itself is not much of a consideration either way.

I know - now you're sorry you asked! 😉

As for those who think that all older men are searching for the fountain of youth, I will say that wasn't part it for me, ever. Younger women were an exception, and the fling with the one that was way younger came about and continued as long as it did because she was unusually mature.

I've gone out with a few older men - they're fun, and usually very considerate and good lovers.

I certainly hope so as I am “middle aged” (55). Hmmm my middle-aged implies I will live to 110…maybe I am eldery.

In my case it's true.I have been with a lot of older guys.I'm not a home wrecker tho

On the other side of the coin, I am having affairs with two women who are considerably older than me. Used be three but that is another story.

Their company, in every sense of the word, is enchanting.